Follow your instincts and don’t be retarded. Thousands of years of evolution are programmed into your brain. When you’re next to a girl you like, let nature take over.

Read 50 shades of Grey.

then, become that man

There's no one, single book that can solve all your problems. Different books and blog posts and forum posts will give you different info to fill whatever knowledge gaps you have.

additionally, you need to put this stuff into practice. Theoretical knowledge without practical experience is worthless.

I recommend reading the sidebars at TRP, MRP, WAATGM, and WATGMA. I'd recommend the MGTOW subreddit's sidebar as well, but unless the Red Archive saved it, it's probably gone forever.

Out of all the reading material in all the sidebars and scattered throughout all the various Red Pill spaces, here are the items that I recommend most:

1) "No More Mr. NiceGuy" by Dr. Robert Glover

2) "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" by Dr. Manuel Smith

Those two books aren't exactly Red Pill, but help the reader take necessary steps in positive masculine development: eliminating covert contracts, being more assertive, setting boundaries, etc

The next few items are from Roissy/Heartiste:

3) 16 Commandments of Poon

4) Be A Skittles Man

5) anything else ofhis that seems relevant to you that you can find - Archive of various posts, sorted by category, https://heartiste.org, https://theredarchive.com/blog/Heartiste

The next few items will be from Rollo Tomassi

6) the first Rational Male book (some of the other items will be within that book)

7) There is no One

8) Wait for it?

9) Saving the Best

10) Just Get It

The remaining will be ones that I remember from various authors

11) Book of Pook

12) HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches

13) HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Teasing Bitches

You'll find that almost every one of these is either on the TRP or MRP sidebar or both. In other words:

read the sidebar

Book of Pook in my opinion. Has the most building blocks and women psychology all in one place if you ask me. That book did more of a difference to me than any other book

Bang has some good information, especially on "the vibe" which i didn't see in any other book and I also appreciated some of the information in "Day Bang" that made some things about pulling and closing click and made me realize i don't need to be an alpha Chad in situations. Day Bang helped me tremendously even for night game. Day Bang is a real hidden gem on basic conversations to pulling, as well as progressing conversations forward at the right pace. Day Bang is inadvertently a masterfully good social skills book that it is a pickup book imo but i couldn't recommend it enough

Also, one question allowed per day

Reading books won't help you get laid. You read the sidebar and use the right tools for the right job. No amount of reading will get you laid. It all about actually going out and physically being present with women.

How about the book of life.Corniness aside, books prove useful guides but experience and calibration are the best teachers

Look, I'm going to make a second comment

Your own personal journal is the best book of how to get laid. What you learned you did wrong and what you did right and how to build on it.

Even us OGs are always correcting what we did better or worse each time. Your book of personal experience is always going to be the best. If it's not you are not living Enough or not humble enough to learn