10k town is a tough one and then also get younger girls.

The getting a lower SMV from getting older is not true I think, there are girls who like older guys, quite a few even. And, I know it doesnt feel like it, but 30 is an attractive age. Wear it proud. You have to be kinda fit tho. You could try to use your age to your advantage. Guys in beginning of ther 20s are fucking reatrded you are probably not, shouldnt be too hard to show that.

I wouldnt even try to get in the circle of the 20s somethings. You could try day game. Everyone goes to the store. Still 10k is hard, how much chances to approach do you even get. You could also try passive game like getting a reputation in the town for something. Simplest would be sick car maybe? Become an antisocial pyschpath who gets in fights constantly?

I have one friend who stayed in the hometown and became very social at some point like chit chatting with everyone, store clerk, cashier, contrators, everyone...He has like 2k people in facebook now. That too could lead to success.

Post of you figured out a way, its an intersting "problem" I think.

Stop overthinking this shit and live your life dude.

I'm early 30s and played a fuck ton of catch up and I've fucked (since my 30s) anywhere from 23-38 yo

Honestly, the 38 yo was pretty fuckin fun and good in bed. She did better than a lot of the young ones. We split for unrelated reasons.

My favorite lays of all time were 31, 31, and 28. The 38 was close but not my top 3.

I'm currently fucking a 23 yo and she isn't that great but a plate is a plate and it's enjoyable enough to maintain when she's available. I fucked another 23 yo who likewise wasn't super good in bed either but her body was probably my favorite out of all of them. Again, her bedroom skills were... Eh.

Fucked a 25 yo who was okay. Fucked a 24 yo who falsely accused me and was mid in bed.

Lemme guess, you're one of those spergs that sees 50 posts railing about 23 years old being peak sexual amazingness and now you're depressed. C'mon dude. You're suffering from lack of experience and wisdom and instead masturbating tears into an internet post.

None of what you typed is how real life works. Most of it is online tropes. Get valuable and meet women everywhere.

I've pulled so many young 20s women at my early 30s. More than I could have when i was their age. Stop bitching and start being awesome.

Edit: not my full list of lays, i listed the youngest and some of the oldest ones. Had other post 30 women and 20s women in the mix and i didn't list them. Pulled 21-22 to as well and i just didn't feel like fucking them.

It feels like I was sold a lie by the red pill

No, you're just a sperg. A sperg with scarcity mentality and who (i guarantee if I saw a picture of you you wouldn't be hot shit) swallowed the red pill on an empty stomach and has yet to get his shit together.

Ofc if you found red pill and did next to jack dick getting ripped and higher SMV and good at social skills and game and worked on your dang career this whole time you're gonna be on the loner/loser end of the spectrum

What the fuck were you expecting when you found TheRedPill, the pussy password buried in the 5th paragraph of a post?

We live in the social media era, which is bombarded with false information/propaganda, creating a paranoid dating atmosphere.

You're putting too many road blocks on yourself, bro. I approach girls in real life & find out their age. You don't have to go super direct, unless you're in a bar or night club environment. You can be a cool, social dude in the right environments. Join a gym, take up classes. Many things you can do to surround yourself with women. Be sure to actually be interested, so you're not some creep there just hounding on girls lol

Much to learn you have.

Your SMV is only now starting to increase - you need to be patient.

I don't have your full details / information, but I can smell the incel of you. It sounds like you are having a dry patch, not getting any pussy, and this in turn is causing the dry panties in all the women you meet.

The solution is always the same: you need to start fucking. Stop being so picky - being picky is a feminine trait. At 30 years old, you need to stop talking and start fucking. Fuck all the chicks you can. Fuck older chicks, younger chicks, fat chicks, thin chicks - just stop being a picky princess.

Then, when you postively reek of pussy because of all the fucking you are doing, when you do meet a top draw woman, she will know that you are chad. She will look deep in your eyes and realise that you have fucked half the town, and she will want you.

At the moment - even if you did meet the woman of your dreams, you would most likely fuck it up. Because you reek of incel. The one thing women are really good at is spotting desperation. they know a chad when they see one, and right now, you aint it.

Rock climbing clubs are full of women in their 20s.

Remember the cardinal rule of clubs though: never try to pick up a girl during a club activity - i.e don't show up to your Wednesday night climbing class and ask for Becky's number. That's likely to get you a bad reputation in the club.

Instead, you make friends through the club, expand your social circle, get invited to (or set up) social events, and that's where you ask women out.

Well honestly the first step it to fix your attitude. It's defeatist and it sucks. You're never going to get anywhere with that kind of mindset.

Now here's your action plan:

Take all those things that are holding you back and hand write them down on an 8x10 paper. Once you're satisfied with what you wrote, take that paper and read it out loud then whipe your ass with it and light it on fire.

That's about as much good as those ideas are.

You're at a crossroads here. Do you want to be a successful guy or a celibate loser that complains?

If you want the former, you are going to need to sacrifice your defeatist attitude. Something tells me that you're one of those guys that loves that attitude. You might not be ready to let that go yet.

This is ok. We need people in society that are good examples of what not to do. Some guys will put up every obstacle they can find to sabotage their success. It's a lifestyle that you're free to choose.

Just know that no one here feels sorry for you and women don't get the tingles from inaction.

I suggest you put in effort and try. This type of stuff isn't really difficult unless you want it to be.

You're being a bit dramatic about age, I'd you were 55 I would get it but 30 is nothing bro. If you can't find 20 year old then look for fresh out of college 25 year olds. Your main issue may be the low population where you live but what you can work in is your attitude. Take your time, scan the market and see what's going on,who's giving you attention and who isn't.

You have so much wrong in your post, in your mindset, in your mental models, and in your grasp of the Red Pill that I scarcely know where to begin.

I was going to do a long writeup, partly roasting you and partly pointing you in the right direction.

However, after reading your replies to others who tried to help, I'll keep it short so as not to waste my effort.

1) do you even lift?

(seriously - did you expect some kind of magical "glow-up" at 30, and not to have to put in any work? Do you even fucking lift?)

2) are you fucking retarded?!

You're opening sentence confirms in my mind that you are whinny little bitch faggot. That or retarded. Or maybe both.

What kind of man says "I don't want to fuck 30 year old women"

That is retarded AND gay.

A normal well adjusted 30 year old man wants to fuck all the women, all the time. How did you get to be such a picky princess? this is very female behaviour.

Some of this is in response to your disrespect at @lone_ranger but also your tone to just about all the other people here.

Have you ever actually met a 30 year old woman?

The way you are speaking to all the flaired users (even the non flaired ones) is insane.

You become picky when you have options

What options do you have? You strongly indicated you barely had any.

I don't think you've ever fucked anybody under 30

This is your first post and you've nearly completed the register to ban pipeline on one post alone. That's some impressive shit, i would knock it off, because I'm not going to let our users smack their heads against the wall trying to undo the sheer amount of incel brainwashing arrogance and entitlement you have. And yes, a site ban, not just from this particular forum.

I think you are projecting your faggotry onto me. Normal well adjusted people don't get off on trying to bully people on the internet.

Yeah honestly I'll probably just do it anyway, you have no respect for our users and already crossed the lines of being an unhelpable prick.

NO! I want you guys to tell me about xyz! Not mostly what I posted about! ReeeeeeEEEE!!

Yeah this won't fly here. I don't know what to you were thinking participating here at all when all you wanted was a confirmation bias circle jerk in a room full of mirrors.

I'm here looking for solutions.

As evidenced by 80% of replies, no you aren't. You want a magical pussy password for an extremely narrow age group while also lamenting that you don't want to fuck a different age group and then going on to lament everything in between as well. You came here to be indignant and delusional.

This all in addition to coming on here saying TRP lied to you and vilifying the community out the gates.

Honestly man if you don't show any humility NOW your out. Don't have time to babysit a rowdy little inner child on here.

Cc: @Typo-MAGAshiv

. I feel like guys in their early twenties and shit are very defensive against older men going after younger women and don't want to let you into their social circles s

As a man you should be creating social circles, not joining others.

I don't feel comfortable approaching hot girls in public because I can't tell the diference between a 21 year old and a 16 year old

This is a major fucking problem. You need to not worry about this and talk to these girls - you're not on dating apps, you're not socialising and you're not daygaming, so that means you are meeting zero women.

Go and talk to them. If they're young, you can easily just bail. Find out about their life........ school or college? If school, say "wow, I had you pegged as 20 years old" and she'll tell you her true age.

Do I absolutely have to go digital now?

I don't know the answer here, but if women near you are not on the apps (as you said), there is no point in you being there.

I'm afraid I'll move to a city and still be isolated. This fucking sucks bros.

Try it.

30

30 is a great age for pulling women: you are attractive, still young, in great shape (if not then fix this), and financailly established.

Find a way to make it work for you.