(Want to say this only implies for texting, which leads to going out where I mostly don't have this problem.) Before I was big on RP, girls would feel something is wrong with me or something and didn't have much success. That happened because they knew I only want the lay nothing more. Don't care about her life, hobbies, etc. Later I toned down and now I've had comments that are really BP, like I see you as a friend, I'm talking to someone else. Basically like friendzone. I don't really know how to balance these 2 energies, to not be seen as an asshole and not to be seen as a friend. It isn't good if I sexualize too much it isn't good if I don't talk at all, it isn't good when I talk to them... nothing really worked.
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tonyadams 3w ago
Being too focused on just getting a physical outcome can come off as detached, which might make women feel uncomfortable or disinterested. On the Retro Bowl flip side, overly toning it down can lead to being friend-zoned if they feel there's no romantic or sexual energy.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
Read the book of Pook.
He explains it better than I ever could and basically at around the beginning of the book too.
mattyanon Admin 3w ago
If you're hot, she won't give a fuck.
Right.
You're behaving like a brother, not like a challenging potential lover.
How muscular? How fat? What's your bodyfat? How successful are you?
SSBPikkon 3w ago
I'd say I'm about average rn. Got good genetics, would need a 1 year for sure in the gym to be above average.
mattyanon Admin 3w ago
Women want top 10% men for sex. Be that man.
No-Stress-Cat 3w ago
Red Pill =/= Getting Pussy
Red Pill is about self-improvement, doing things your own way, what you want to do, when you want to do it. It's got nothing to do with women. Sure, if pussy happens to fall in your lap there's some tips to handle women, but the goal is not to attract women. The goal is to get your shit together, and be the best man you can be without women. Be on your purpose and stop giving a fuck about pussy. Pussy is a dime a dozen.
EurasianChad 1 3w ago
Not every girl will like you. That's fine. You can have girl friends. That's fine. They add to social proof in environments & provide you with calm, feminine energy to compliment your life.
SSBPikkon 3w ago
I always thought talking to girl friends is waste of time. Sure they can help with social proof, but as long as others see that we're just friends it's not as good as having options or rotations. Also, most girls are uninteresting, can't talk to them nothing smart and worth talking.