I give no validation. One of my plates literally begs me to give her compliments.
What do you thing about saying stuff like “ I love your ass/tits” during sex “I love fucking you you slut” Or “ I love using you as a sex toy”?? Will that lower attraction after the sex or is it different than normal validation?
oowiw 3h ago
Use validation to reward and reinforce good behavior, like when she caters to you in bed...And I mean actual validation, not just some dirty talk. Just keep it in line with what you've been like so far, a small amount will probably go a long way given the status quo you have going.
No-Stress-Cat 3d ago
Some women like it when you talk dirty to them. Shit like growling in their ear and "Your pussy is so tight" really turns them on. I'd just roll with it if it keeps her coming back for more.
pofkaf 3d ago
Read "Sex God Method." There are many examples about dirty + sweet talk written in that book.
Musicgoon78 1 3d ago
Jesus weeps for your bundling of sticks!
Does, dirty talk turn you on? Most people love that! If you're too much of a sperg to give compliments I don't know what to say.
I'm seriously shocked almost daily at the level of Tism that comes from this site. This is why guys have a bad rap with women and they get treated like shit. It's because you're acting like a fucking robot instead of a human.
On what planet is giving a girl that's fucking you a compliment a bad thing?
You can always refrain from that, you won't look alpha, you'll look like a moron.
Let me give you a second bit of advice: don't degrade a girl unless she has expressly told you that what she's into. You treat her like a throwaway hoe and she will leave your ass and hate you. Your examples of dirty talk are awful!
There is a huge difference between "you're a dirty slut" and "you're my dirty slut". You treat her like a a hoe and she will despise you, even if she is a hoe...
Try using some common sense. "Good God you're so fucking sexy" or "you're so good at that" or even " this feels amazing". This isn't rocket science, but you have to give normal compliments until you have a conversation about desires and kinks.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
Spergs keep taking basic RP principles like don't give unearned validation to women to extremes like never give validation at all.
I know the term emotional intelligence is frequently misused but there is actually a degree of social and emotional intelligence needed to be with a woman
My biggest pet peeve in AskTRP is that some men have zero ability to link together different concepts. The TRP toolkit is a bundle and spergs always hyperfocus on one tool or they apply early dating/early PUA game to the entirety of their relationship thereafter
Ofc you don't want to lavish praise and validation on a woman you are trying to smash but once these spergs get the puss they completely fail to realize the dynamic changes
I swear to God. I don't know how people end up like this. I wrote my best guess in the permanent game noob essay
Wintergreen 3d ago
This game of not giving compliments just leads them to never give you compliments, then you wonder why they don’t give compliments. Normal people compliment each other. It’s like people here forget that normal people do normal things and that living life by the rules of some internet forum is actually abnormal.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
It's starting to make total sense why women keep joking that you're a rapist.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 2d ago
#MeToo
First-light 2d ago
I can only think of two reasons why a man might not want to give compliments about sex.
If its 1. then you need to check you are making an effort that works for her, talk to her and possibly reconsider the whole relationship. If its 2, consider consider what you are saying. "Oh my god, you are the best I have had, I can never look at another woman" is full of oneitis and puts her in a place she can't really top by doing better. I can see it could make her lazy and conceited. "You feel so good" "I love it when you do that" "I love your arse, now throw it back at me" These things are not excessive or undue.
However, to not give credit where it is due is simply mean. Women are not known for their love of mean men.
Wintergreen 2d ago
Careful bro, many people here are under the impression that they are known for that. Of course, it’s a misinterpretation of what a “bad boy” is and you’re exactly right.
First-light 2d ago
Yeah. Women love a generous bad boy who lives life large and takes them on a ride with him but they will very soon loathe an ungenerous one.
If a guy is clearly selfish, but will pull her along to good things and likes her, a woman can go crazy for him but if he is selfish towards her, he is living on borrowed time. Fidelity and good moral character may not be necessarily required but being generous and good fun when they are together is even more so if fidelity and good character are lacking. A man who offers neither fidelity, nor generosity not good character offers considerably less than Beta who they will usually stay with unless there is a monkey branch option.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 2d ago
Not bad, but can be better.
"I love watching your titties bounce while I fuck your brains out" or (after sex) "you're really glowing, and it makes you look amazing".
Terrible. Will trigger ASD.
Also terrible, same reason.
Keep in mind that she might be a slut, and she might love being a slut, but she doesn't want anyone (including you) to think that she's a slut.
CleansingFire 2d ago
Tell her her pussy is like chernoble because your rod is melting inside her