In september 2023 I got of the hub and stopped beating it. (Virgin at the time) Everything was working fine back then. In the following year I finally started having my first sexual encounters at age 20. However there is 1 little problem. I cant get my dick up. I thought it was because of anxiety or excitement but after 3-4 times that wasnt really the case and Im still left with the same problem. Im now 21, very active, clean diet, good sleep and everything but I cant figure out how to make my dick work again. What should I do?
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whytehorse2021 1d ago
Tell a Dr. They will check your testosterone.
First-light 22h ago
If you can get it up to wank, you are physically able to get it up to bang. It might still be the interaction of having to fit in sex around someone else that can be a bit of a thing at first.
If you can get it up to wank, wake up with morning erections or get hard when you see hot women or sex scenes on TV, then its still mental not physical. Just try taking a dick pill next time you go to bang, then half a pill the time after, aiming to not use it as soon as possible. This will make it practically impossible for you to get stage fright. The availability of dick pills varies by local laws but in most places you can just buy them or get an on line doctor to prescribe them. The cialis type is probably preferable to the viagra type as it gives you a bigger window of opportunity in case plans alter.
If you are not waking up with morning erections and can't get it up to wank even with porn, then I would get straight to a doctor because there is a real medical problem if this is happening in a healthy active 20 year old man and there is no point wasting time with home remedies. At 20 you want to get it fixed and look forward to decades of good trouble free sex, not be finding work arounds or relying on pills long term.
Just checking, hopefully at 20 you haven't been big into anabolics? If you have, then rethink things, you have clearly really over done it but there are well publicised strategies for getting things going again and doctors who specialise in such things.
Suitable-Error7286 13h ago
Its kind of mixed. Before nofap I would get hard just looking at girls asses in school but now it does take some thinking and or nsfw material. I do however not get morning wood at all so Im not sure if I just have to get used to having a hard dick again because I went for weeks and even months completly soft at the start of this when I wasnt getting any action.
lambOfGod 21h ago
You have to make sex a somewhat of a routine in your life. If you are too anxious to initiate with a real girl and fuck her, start with an escort first to get your wheels going.
Workout daily (don't overtrain or go heavy every day) and abstain from touching your dick (apart from hygiene routine, gotta mention 'cause of autists here) for 1-2 weeks and get multivitamins. Once you fuck and escort to get you on training wheels, you will confirm to yourself that you CAN FUCK.
Then, you can go forth and conquer. Life can be easy, don't make your life a living hell by enslaving yourself to your doubt and wrong mindset.
You can also try Tadalafil, small doses daily for a bit. Comes branded as Cialis. There are other medicines that have Tadalafil, branded differently. Do your own research on this.
But the most important thing is: Are the girls you fuck hot? For you? That might be the issue
Suitable-Error7286 13h ago
What about overtraining? I play Basketball at a somewhat high level so I workout 2x per day on average. I get enough calories and sleep but could that still be the problem? Also looking back my standards for hookup candidates did actually take a big hit in recent times but I had the same issues with "conventionally" hot girls so Im not so sure about that one.
mattyanon Admin 17h ago
what is "the hub" ?
lambOfGod 14h ago
pornhub and all related sites
mattyanon Admin 12h ago
ah, thx
mattyanon Admin 12h ago
As others have implied: you need to be more clear about where the problem lies. Are you hard sometimes or never? Are you with women you're attracted to? Any history of drug use or abuse?
Suitable-Error7286 9h ago
Well I have defenetly a few strong erections here and there. Just a lot less than I used to have because I suppressed my urges for over a year. I dont do drugs not even alcohol. Attractiveness might contribute a little bit. To describe what happened again today: talking/ getting comfortable, escalation, dick gets sucked at which point its hard but after putting on the rubber and her hopping on top its soft again.