Reading and applying TRP are two entirely different things. When I'm with women I just use logic when speaking but I try to implement push and pull but I feel so tired trying. I hate conversations with women they bore me. Two women were super interested in me and then lost interest. I feel like I'm not a man. I'm not in touch with myself. I hate everything in my life. I was a porn addict for many years and today exactly marks 99 days since I quit and maybe I should be more patient. I can feel my feelings now a bit more. I am more present than before. I am 30% better than before but I hate where I am. I'm sorry I'm not brief and succint but I literally need to vent. I dont know how to have fu nanymore. My life is fucekd up too. I have lost belief in myself. the only thing I have is my good looks. Exams I had given up on myself. I am 25 and my family sees me as a failure. I've lied to the mtht I've been doign good at uni. I was once expelled from a university abroad. I still have 8 exams and a thesis to give. it's happened multiple times whre I've otld the mth truth and then i do a couple of exams and then i slip. Now its the first time I am so much pornfree since 10 years and opening my eyes has hurt me as i've negelected every aspect of my life. I'm sorry that I'm talking like a bitch because I just slapped a woman's ass as a joke 5 mintues ago and she told me to never do it again.
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whytehorse2021 7h ago
Sounds like a frame issue.
First-light 6h ago
Ok don't slap her arse again. Another one may like it. But try to work out if she likes it first next time. Now move on. We all mess up.
You are taking steps to improve your life. Another is practising light easy conversation with women. Forget logic, just talk about shit that's going on in the world (not serious stuff unless they start it and even then beware), what you are doing, what they are doing, what they are wearing, things you like, things, they like. Women are often quite boring -their lives are smaller than ours- but they get more interesting if they start to sparkle with enthusiasm or play up to you. find out what they like and let them talk about it. Most of them talk more than we care for in the end, so once you get them started its not too hard. Use positive tone and body language (not suggestive inappropriate body language or silly dominant body language) and they usually warm up and at least you have a good conversation and leave feeling OK with the world.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5h ago
Step one: stop the negative self-talk. That shit programs you for failure. In fact, ditch that loser-ass username and pick a new one.
No more "I hate [anything about yourself]". No more "I can't ___". Knock that shit off. It's poison.
Step two: don't do shit that can land you in prison. That's sexual assault.
If you've been sexually escalating with a woman, a nice ass-slap can be a fun way to keep escalating.
This reads like it just came out of nowhere. Don't do that.
Yeah, don't overdo that. They want fun and excitement. Have some interesting stories to tell.
The good news is that 25 is still young, and you have plenty of time to correct things.
Just be patient with yourself. This is a marathon, not a sprint.