What would make you give up on a great LTR?
I have a great LTR but visa issues are happening. Making it almost impossible for her to stay in the country.
I can keep throwing money at it but I really don't have much more money to throw. I'm already living paycheck to paycheck to try to deal with this.
I know logically I'm young and it'll be alright but I have that fear of giving up on the first good thing I've had. We've been together around 2 years.
Everyone in my life just keeps saying fight fight, get married, do ldr, etc
I'm tired.
MrSupreme 14h ago
It's taking a toll on you,you gotta think about the future economically and spending your few bucks on affording her a living in your country then I think perhaps it is time to let go. Don't fall for the "fight for your love" blue pill pressure.It means to force love and forced love is self imposed slavery.
In the future when you have enough cash you'll be able to take liberties like dating around with 2-3 girls at the same time or a meaningful stable relationship. I know from experience that spending the few bucks you have in women is not wise, better to recover,grow and then feed the cock.
IHateNames 6h ago
I think it may be some deep bluepill shit after all these years. I think I'm hoping she leaves so I'll be free but afraid to act on it. 'Don't want to hurt her'
MrSupreme 1h ago
You can't help hurting people,it's all game,it is always in motion.
Musicgoon78 1 13h ago
If it's taking that much of a toll, you should let it go. She can come back when both of you are economically doing better. You're young. This probably just be one of many women.
Don't break yourself to save her.
IHateNames 6h ago
I really am buring myself at both ends. This has been going on for a long time.
adam-l Moderator 12h ago
The hard truth is that when young, you should fuck a lot of women
Separate with her on good terms, maybe visit her for a year or so to fuck, until she finds someone else, while working on building your roster of future ex's to fall back on during your dry spells as an older man.