I see the point to it, and at the same time I don't. Problem boils down to I don't do it, I'm supposed to have more energy and be a better person and find a good girl and I don't Then it happens that for health reasons I bust it without a girl which is bad and I go to the beginning. How do y'all balance it? The best way is to be the best version of yourself and always be capable of finding chicks, but it's a long path to it.
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financehardo420 1mo ago
It’s not so much no fap as it is no porn.
Also maybe avoid fapping excessively; once before bed is imo totally acceptable if you’re not getting laid.
Musicgoon78 2 1mo ago
No fap is for losers. You're either the type of guy that jerks off because he wants to or jerks off because he has to.
No one really gets super powers from retaining a nut. But losers will convince other losers to do losing shit. No one wants to be alone in their celibacy.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 1mo ago
NoFap is fucking retarded.
If I'm horny and my wife is unwilling or unable, I'm going to beat off to relieve my tension. I'm not going to go around in a horny haze in which all I can think about is how horny I am.
Back when I was single, if I hadn't been laid in a few days, I'd whack it to get the release.
The key is moderation. Don't become a coomer who jerks off multiple times a day and doesn't even try fucking a real woman. Don't let masturbation take over your life to the point that it's interfering with actual living.
SSBPikkon 1mo ago
Thought so. Back when I had no one I used to relieve tension, not doing too much. There can be times where I have no one for a long time and then I'm too much horny to do anything normally.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
I did nofap for 8 weeks in basic training and it had no noticeable effect.
MrSupreme 1mo ago
Do nofap if you're on the rare case of fapping way too much,like 2-3 times a day. something much more useful is no porn. Jerk off with confidence but try and keep off porn,that is trash and changes your whole sex life and expectations. Little by little
ObliviousDuck 1mo ago
No fap helps with the lack of motivation and sexual disfunctions that come from watching too much porn.
It's not a cheat code, it does not grant you super powers and it does not make all the pretty girls fall on your dick.
I'm sorry but those will require actual work and discipline.