I’ve been having a problem lately of keeping my energy up and getting out of my head when going out.

I’ve been traveling and was having trouble enjoying the vibes of the club even though it was a good dj and even though Im dancing I appear and feel stiff. I still approach my hearts just not in it.

I saw/met a chad briefly probably 6-2,6-3 light skinned good looking, british. He was talking to one of the girls who had looked at me and I was immediately filled with rage at first as black pill entered my mind, (all they care about is looks) but then I calmed down and decided to learn from the guy instead. He was actually pretty cool.

After this haze cleared I kinda realized that he actually had very good game. His body language was very loose, he was constantly dancing looked like he was havng a blast and playful. At one point the girl brought her friend and they just started drooling over him. Even when there was a lull in the convo he would just turn back around and continue dancing and the girls would eventually come back to him.

I even left and came back and he had a new set. Only for the originals to come back. Anyways he was making strong eye contact looked like he was having fun by himself. Talking to everyone. He somehow was also constantly whispering stuff in their ears despite a sharp language barrier. When I tried we couldn’t even communicate but it seemed like he was flawlessly communicating with just body language and some words.

I have/had brief states like this in the past but it usually required binge drinking and or drugs. But man did it get results. When I would do that I would a similar effect to this guy. But obviously drugs and alcohol are bad and this cant be kept up.

Do you guys have any tips for how I can maintain my energy/get out of my head. It seems like im getting self conscious especially since I was out with people I had just met but even telling myself it didnt matter didn’t really help. Ive noticed my approaches take such a drastic decline too when im like this.

Also, interesting experience my friends were just telling me how they were impressed with my improvements, but seeing a guy like that makes you realize theres always a bigger fish.

Tldr: Having trouble maintaining energy/dancing being less stiff when going out without drinking. Met a chad who made it look effortless.