Guys that went from getting 4s and 5s to getting 8s and 9s - what did it take? What was your situation LMS-wise and how did it change? How did your game change?
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brazilianxof 2d ago
It took:
10 to 15 Kg of muscle (i was really skinny-fat) Solid career. Teeth whitening and straightening. Reading hard books. Education. Having a life. Accepting that they banged man who had done no work, had nothing but genetics and some clout, but they were "there with her" while i was playing Final Fanrasy of whatever.
How long? 3 to 4 years before started kicking. Bear in mind i was below the line of misery dating wise.
"OH BUT TOO LONG" be a poor fat ball living with mommy in 4 years then. Time will pass anyway.
Thing is, this work should have being going from 16 troughout 26 and you would be fine, your work then would be not let it fall. 16y guys who were chatting girls and playing sports and music and working jobs and studying... Instead of not doing that. If we start later, better go all in or cry in bed.
fumandobebiendo 49m ago
hey man
I felt so identified with this, how did you manage to handle that? all the time this stuff fucks my mind, like I know they would have had N chad thundercocks and AWALT, but still I feel like they try to hide their hoe/CC years from me and it makes me feel like I'm the idiot that needs to deal with more complexity in stuff others had so easy, making me a beta idiot
this gave me motivation, because I feel like I"m having to deal with things way harder than if I had known all of this when I was 12-13years old (that shit would have set me for life), my sin was being a fat idiot and being in the fucking computer programming and playing games in my teen years, after that being the blue pill idiot everyone took advantage of. RP made me awake but the price went exponentially high. The stuff about "better go all in or cry in bed" is amazing, thanks for writing that
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 2d ago
Good shit
Musicgoon78 1 2d ago
They got more confident. AWALT. There is no difference between women, but guys put them on a pedestal.
Even assigning them a number is a total sperg thing to do. The numbering system is subjective and for losers.
First-light 2d ago
Life experience. Learning to relate to others. Not being afraid to try in the right places. Knowing where the right places to try are. Learning to think what can I bring to this exchange based on what this person is seeking?
whytehorse2021 2d ago
I started out with 8s and 9s in HS because I was a drug dealer stoner type. Once I quit that and started working fast food and going to college I got 4s and 5s. So in that situation it was the status of "bad boy". After college I went to Asia and I was getting 9s and 10s without changing anything other than the market I was in. In that situation I had status as light skinned(that's what they are attracted to over there) and wealthy(they just assume all Americans are rich). Plus I'm very tall over there.
So in my case it all boils down to status. Whether that comes from looks or money or frame(dangerous, bad boy). There are ways to fake it till you make it but then when the SHTF you're up shit creek without a paddle.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 2d ago
1) I became more confident in myself
2) I stopped pedestalizing them just because they were hot. Hot women aren't magical creatures who fart rainbows and shit diamonds. They're just people, and just women at that.
3) after I fucked a few who were duds, I realized that how enthusiastic a woman was to fuck me mattered far more than how hot she was.
SpiritualEnema 8h ago
Absolutely. Some of these are even worse people than average because their entitlement is dialed up to infinity.
I spent the first couple weeks vetting women solely for entitlement before I would agree to anything additional in person. In my mind it’s the biggest red flag there is.
Lone_Ranger 2 1d ago
"I realized that how enthusiastic a woman was to fuck me mattered far more than how hot she was."
100% AGREE.
When I see spergs asking about how to fuck 10s, or saying that they would never bang a woman who was less than 9, I am sure that they are virgins who know know nothing about sex and desire. They remind me of women that say that they would 'never date a man that was less than 6"2 and earned less than $300k'. You immediately know that they have never had that kind of man.
The reason why retarded women want a rich giant and loser spergs want a perfect 10 is the same - they both think that a 'high status' partner is going to increase their own value It does not.
I've had boring sex with 10s and amazing sex with 4s. Chasing hotness is a retards game.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 1d ago
One of the biggest tells of men who don't fuck I've seen in these spaces is when they say "I only fuck 9s and 10s".
financehardo420 5h ago
Facts if you’re drunk and horny enough 7 and up works just fine. I would beat my meat before i land a whale; got too much self respect for that.
But a 7 with a good body and a whatever face… we can work with that. Also usually much more enthusiastic and tbh better at sex than a typical 9 or “10”.
Also there technically is no such thing as a ten bc there’s always a hotter chick
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 1h ago
Not to get too hung up on the spergy-ass 1-10 scale that's mostly subjective anyway, buuuuuut....
If 5 is average, 7 is damned good-looking.
Shit dude, don't you young'uns do slump-busters? I once fucked a fat 4 because I really fucking needed it.
MrSupreme 2d ago
Working out and healthy food helped me a bunch when I was married to a HB2-3.i was obese,it took me about 2 years to get in shape and learn some game and in that time my marriage was over,she couldn't handle me being attractive and being a better fuck. After we split up I banged a few 6-7s.
Healthy food and workout does wonders for confidence,frame,actually loving the work out and being passionate about something other than game
Musicgoon78 1 2d ago
Hb2 ????????
Sounds like how I would rate my ex wife in her current state. She went from a bit thicc to Jabba the Hut about 8 years after our divorce.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 2d ago
The "HB" stands for "hot body", or at least it did in circa-2001 PUA forums.
Keeping that in mind: HB2?!?!???!?