Hi all, I always preferred pulling from the club vs dating apps.
Lately I had a falling out with a popular sorority chick I was hooking up with and whose big friend groups frequent the club A LOT. Basically got stonewalled from the entire friendgroup and they're regulars and tight with all the bouncers. Running into them would be annoying and it'd be hard for me to ignore them without them ruining my night.
Any thoughts? I realize it sounds pathetic however I'm curious if anyone has had any parallel experiences, looking for advice
EmpireCrimson 2d ago
Learn to ignore them. It's a good life lesson. Failing that, consider a new venue to hang out at.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
I have 4-6 exes at clubs out a night. Swallow your ego and stop giving a shit
Sounds counterintuitive but once you see the light it will make sense
Call it extreme cope or what but you start becoming numb to it after you want to vomit a few times at what you see
Lone_Ranger 2 2d ago
I am guessing the reason why Vx gets laid easily is because he has 4-6 exes at the club. And has a 'bad reputation' as a man that 'treats women like dirt'.
95% of the spergs on this site STILL think that a man having a reputation as a 'slut' is going to harm his chances of pulling. In fact, the exact opposite is true.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago
The funny thing is I'm not known for treating them like dirt. Rather the opposite. I'm considered a solid guy who is very harmless.
Women however know i fuck there and even when they don't know I do, they always assume i could. The amount of times i have heard that i could "have anyone i want" there is pretty high, from both men and women's opinions.
Women see that i don't even have to ask other women to dance, I get asked all night long and they have constant competition. I could be fucking none or all of them. I AM a dick to my exes. I ghost and am blunt with them. So maybe there is something to it.
But yes they know i fuck or could fuck and they don't think I'm a virgin. I usually make jokes about being super innocent on the dance floor, especially after doing a move that isn't. They know. I know. They KNOW that I KNOW.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 2d ago
Do they know that you know that they know that you know that they know?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago
Yes
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 2d ago
How do you know?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago
They know how i know ;)
financehardo420 3d ago
you’re basically cooked until she gets the tingles for a new guy
Musicgoon78 1 3d ago
Move on plain and simple. Find another girl to go to the club with or just find another venue. You sure are giving other people a lot of power over your life.
MentORPHEUS Senior Endorsed 3d ago
Read up on frame and mental point of origin for deeper insights. Rian Stone's Youtube channel has great content on this if you want to listen while doing other things.
There's always "grow out of clubbing already."
But to work through the issue as you asked about it, the best way forward is to practice your best DGAF game and dive right in to that social circle but not let her and her friends affect much less define your experience there.