Hi all,
I'm living in this apartment for 1 year. During the year I've run into this cute neighbour just saying hi. She had a boyfriend so I didn't bother much.
Fastforward a month ago, the landlord sends me to her apartment to fix some gas pipe cause he's not there. He did call her to confirm I was coming. She opens the door with a bathrobe on and welcomes me in (she had 30 mins to put some clothes on). We briefly talk talk while I do my stuff. I'm done in 5 mins and she's "oh you you're so fast". Then shakes my hand firmly to exchange names. At this point I'm like this girl wants me to dick her down right away. I decided not to escalate for some reason (might have been a mistake) and proposed we drink coffee some other day. She agreed, took down my number and called me.
Few days later I called her and she told she getting ready to go out but proposed friday or saturday. To which I agreed but made a mistake not set an exact time. Satuday I called but no answer. Got sick soon and 2-3 weeks passed from there.
2 days ago I run into her in the elevator. We chat for a bit. Once again later that day I run into her and I get a wink while she's on the phone. Yesterday day I decide to knock on her door. Again opens with a bathrobe on lol. Tells me she's going out and I ask if she's free later that day. "I might be here but I'm not sure, text me". Texted her but she turned me down.
What do I do from here? Leave it like this for now or try setting something again? Sorry for bad english.
AbusiveFather1 3w ago
Maybe she was looking to get fucked by her plumber/handyman, but you kind of missed that chance by being this guy that sets up dates instead of fucking.
However, don’t shit where you eat - imagine the shitstorm if you misread her cues and hit on her when she weren’t actually into you. A shitstorm that even a plumber can’t sort out
mattyanon Admin 3w ago
Are you the maintenance guy for the apartments?
possibly yes
yes, you were chicken.
great
It's a good plan not to set up the exact time - leave something to confirm on the day.
I think she was down for dick...... but I've got news for you that might explain what's going on: you are not the only dick in town.
You need to do a few things here:
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 3w ago
OP, when you read his reply, reread that last paragraph multiple times.
Theotonic_knight 3w ago
Thanks. I'm looking for other options and was with another girl yesterday. Still she's hot and want to bang her so decided to turn up to you guys for advice to not fuck it up.
Musicgoon78 1 3w ago
Why don't you say "can I come in"? When she's in her bathrobe?
If she lets you in, green light buddy.
Tell her "I think that bath done would look good in my house". Tell her "let's test that theory". Rip the bath robe off of her with a shit eating grin. Toss it on the ground and say, "yes it would look good in my home like that". Then commence with the makeout and command her to ride your face.
Setting dates are for fags when a woman is in her bathrobe chatting with you.