I seem to occasionally attract women who will openly stare, flirt even in front of husband. Some even do it when he's not looking or away. I'm amazed at human behaviour tbh.
How do you deal with this? Last week I was at a bar and this drunk older Swedish woman was staring at me then waited for me outside the toilet, and rubbed up against me, i smiled. I finished my beer and on the way out she took my hand and said you handsome, husband looking like he wants to hit me rather than reprimand wifey! But managed to get away without hassle.
Im a relaxed, easy going guy and probably would have tried to fuck her if he wasn't there, but I've seen mate guarding, or even boyfriends saying let's go somewhere else as the women tend to sit facing me somehow in bars, cafes.
Most guys seem to like like, trust or not bother me.
There are many women who are not into me too, so I'm not trying to boast, but I'm waking up from a 38 year old beta coma (I believed all the Disney stuff).
Any horror stories of fucking another man's wife? I stick to divorced, single but some of these unhappy married women are so horny, so you get tempted, someone tell me a bad story so I don't end up doing this and having heartbroken hubby at the door wanting to kill me!
Intrepid_Place53900 1 19h ago
"Women that flirt in front of their man"
She's not his, clearly
derdeutscher 10h ago
I broke a relationship because of this. Zero tolerance policy. I respect myself before anything else, especially some piece of poosy. On first or second date maybe its ok, you are still both single I guess..
On 2nd question, I would personally stay away from another mans wife or girlfriend. Is it really worth the risk? Plenty of singles out there mate.
Lone_Ranger 2 2d ago
You are basically a pawn in their game - the woman is flirting with you (and any other man) as a way to make her husband jealous, and he is either consciously or non-consciously into it. Either way, the husband and wife are doing a little dance, and you just wondered into their field of view.
Just ignore it. It's no use to you. Put your focus somewhere else. Don't get tempted to wander into some other couples game.
Wintergreen 6h ago
Wait, what makes you say he’s into it? Quite possibly she is just a cunt and the husband is NOT into it.
slowlylearning1 2d ago
Thank you for your replies, I enjoyed reading them.
MrSupreme, I was exactly the same. Looking back of the 4 girlfriends I had, 3 of them were doing all this. I am actually embarrassed at how I behaved, an absolute cuck. I'd be my natural self at the start (always had a YOLO mindset) so could be charming and women would be in to me, yet turned into a simp by the third date.
No-Stress-Cat 3d ago
Get used to it, young brother. You are a god now. Leave the married bitches alone. It's a good way to get a .38 between the eyes, and you won't be contributing to this married paternity fraud shit.
Wintergreen 3d ago
Idk, it sounds like their dynamic is fucked and you don’t seem to want the risk. If a woman is doing all that it’s probably because she’s a crazy bitch anyway; clearly there is no empathy if she’d do that to her husband. Now you must risk pissing off her husband, sure, but also getting with a bitch who is likely a narcissist. So when you piss her off you will have more fallout than you would with women who are faithful and respect others.
Musicgoon78 Should i (x1) 3d ago
I find that kind of shit disrespectful AF. You will see cuck guys everywhere.
I would find that unacceptable for a girl that I brought somewhere. Stay away from hoes like this. They are simply being vindictive.
MrSupreme 3d ago
i spent 8 years of my life with my first gf,got.her at 18.I had no idea of game,social dynamics,flirting,none of that,completely oblivious.
After my divorce and finding the red pill, i thought back at plenty of times when my ex was flirting with other guys or very platonically and emotionally invested in some guys while I kept my pride intact because i was a guy that wasnt the jealous type which at the time seemed like a virtue.
Many other times i think about when other guys saw how sad a deal that relationship was for me and tried to redpill me,but i turned away in the name.of love lol.
The relationship ended because I found game, cheated,got caught and then i was the worst man alive because of cheating.I have never,for a single second felt guilty for cheating, it was the best darn thing i ever did for myself.