I did the roosh bang approach “let me guess…” to open a girl that is regular at my gym time. We barely spoke for a minute or two and I was asked my name and got hers. Now before any logistics she turned around to walk back to her equipment and said see you tom.
I guess something I said may have spooked her off
Edit: more deets as requested Basically we’ve locked eyes and for some reason I decided to not be a fag and look down. She smiled and so did I. Then some time later when I was on the leg curl she came and went on the treadmill ahead of me. Staring at her ass and I was caught. Did nothing but smile and could see in the mirror that she liked it. Decided next time I cross paths to open her. Probably was too dry but it was barely 2mins when she gave me her name and asked for mine with a well I’ll see you tomorrow.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago Stickied
I'm not sure what you guys are expecting leaving such detail-lacking posts.
You're going to get 50 different answers with this lack of detail
bluebottl3 2d ago Stickied
Fair enough. Basically we’ve locked eyes and for some reason I decided to not be a fag and look down. She smiled and so did I. Then some time later when I was on the leg curl she came and went on the treadmill ahead of me. Staring at her ass and I was caught. Did nothing but smile and could see in the mirror that she liked it. Decided next time I cross paths to open her. Probably was too dry but it was barely 2mins when she gave me her name and asked for mine with a well I’ll see you tomorrow.
MrSupreme 2d ago
shes just being a gym brat, approach again next week.Play the time gane
bluebottl3 2d ago
Gym brat? As in wanting to see whether I would leave my rack and follow her? Nah that wasnt going to happen. Got it will approach again when we cross by or at the cooler.
First-light 2d ago
Some girls come to gyms to get attention. Some come to gyms to work out. You can't be certain which type you have met.
It can be very annoying for serious girls to be hit on in gyms. There are just so many guys full of tren who all wonder if they might get to unload in her and she has come to work out. Talk to her again in a less cocky way. Do it regularly and she may open up just fine but you have to forgive her just creating a bit of distance on a first cocky approach.
Gyms are full of sluts but the only way a girl is going to avoid being a piece of gym equipment to unload in is by rebutting a lot of first approaches.
bluebottl3 2d ago
I always thought to strike while the iron is hot. Otherwise taking it slow has got be friendzoned before trp. I dont think i was too cocky. But then again I would be biased and wouldnt ask here.
First-light 1d ago
Sure if you don't approach her you can't get anywhere, so you did the right thing to try if you liked her.
I am just saying hot girls in gyms have a choice -get fucked by a lot of guys or say no to a lot of guys. Its easier to say no at first approach than later. There is not much to go on here but there is nothing to say she does not like you or would not like to be approached again tomorrow. The friendzone always exists as a risk but to cold approach her and get a date you are going to have to be coming with something better than all the other guys have to offer. The fact that she did not agree to date on first approach is not a failure.
Look at it this way around -unless you just want to use a cum dumpster, would you not want a girl who didn't get railed by random guys who approached her in gyms. Every one who says yes on first approach and then put out on first, second or even third first date has done it a lot before. There are lots of guys with game in gyms. Really its a sign of a girl who might be worth having.
financehardo420 2d ago
imo the gym is not the place to be flirting with girls. have some goddamn respect for my church phaggot
bluebottl3 2d ago
Ill respect the iron temple but when I see a juicy ass and that ass is positioning it self near me I rather not regret it.
lambOfGod 2d ago
So talk to her chill. Don't use fucking night game shit on a day game approach. Use old men openers and convos.
Also, you'd be surprised how many guys in the gym are gays and closet gays. Girls get hit on in the gym quite a lot.
In real life, you have to talk to a girl during the day multiple times until she opens up or she sees if u have balls. Real life is not fucking online dating when you can call a hoe over. You have to build rapport and confirm to her that you're not a creep.
I'd say continue to chat her up, you have nothing to lose at this point.
For the ones who say "iT'S ThE GymMM BRAAAH, dOn'T APPROACH" you are actual closet gays. You don't know it yet, but you will soon, at some point in life. Don't let any jealous loser tell you what to do.
When faggots in the gym see a guy approaching a girl, they want to kill themselves over that because they are jealous of you. They did not have the balls to say hi to a girl, yet they jerk off on each other's chest about how much they bench press.
The biggest pussies of men you will find are in the gym and sometimes coffee shops.