What the fuck are all these stupid comments? "trying to make you beta" and all that? That's why Redpill has a bad reputation because normal people see such stupid stuff..

If she say that you should do x to get her horny then do it. What the f.ck is there to overthink? If in the end he breaks up and the reason was that you did what she said then she was a stupid cunt and that's that..

Comments like "women don't know what they want".. you are no better than Bluepilles people who just repeat what they have heard before..

In a relationship or not? What people say when two people are in a relationship? "Communication" is the key... if the woman says (especially in sex) do this or that because it turns her on more then do that..

How on earth would you (other commenters) know what the woman wants? Yeah, you know the nature of women... that doesn't mean you know what turns that particular woman on or what her favorite color is..

I'm so happy that I am not married or don't have an LTR.

Can you imagine spending 3 years with someone just for a dumb bitch to see some tiktok reel shit or hear one of her friends manipulate her and try to transform you into a cuckold?

You had enough time in 3 years to build your frame and drag her into your frame. The fact that she tries to make you her cuck tells me that you found out about red pill a few months ago or you cherry-picked throughout the years things that you liked hearing.

Being married/in an LTR today is mostly for losers, as women settle down into these relationships. So you should be really, really experienced with women before diving into an LTR, if that is what you want, not what she wants.

God damn, there are fates worse than homelessness and that is being tied down with a masculine woman.

Gay.

Why are you listening to a female?

They have no idea what they want

She probably saw a feminist propaganda tiktok or small hat freudian hollywood film and got her brain scrambled temporarily. Most women(and an increasing number of men) are retarded children with goldfish brains.

Change nothing. She is with you because she likes how you were when she got with you. She will forget whatever made her temporarily like this in less than a week.

Lose frame, lose respect, lose pussy wetness, lose attraction, lose the girl.

Never simp. We can be kind and understanding but we must never simp. If their man is not their leader a female will start looking for a new and stronger man. If your girl starts leading you.... bad times ahead friend.

"Every day sex"

If you are asking her for sex you already lost, women always lie about how much they like sex. They probably like it more than we do, ask yourself, who makes more sounds during?

it's a tactic they have always used. Old as time, but fake.

Especially in 2024 every man should be aware that that females are thirsty sluts. It's not 1950 anymore. Prime female political concern is abortion and fucking freely, what do you think the last election was about?

Play the uno reverse card. Dread game and all that, talk about the "weird convo" you had with the girl at the place you went to yesterday and how strange it was that she asked you what you were doing later after you mentioned your hobby or w/e.

Women project power through psychological manipulation. That is the essence of the red pill. Always do the uno reverse card. Never fails.

She's manipulating you big time. Shit tests are good-natured, this isn't

After certain number of fucks evey plate will try to turn you to beta relationship. I think nobody can maintain alpha-fucks status forever with a girl. IMO this is normal even for the biggest alpha-fuckers out there. I say give women some of the beta comfort. Just do it from your frame, not hers.

Still, asking her can you fuck her pussy is maybe a step too far. And I would not do it. When I say words beta comfort, I mean spend some more time with her, stay overnight sometimes, so she does not feel like some fuck doll. After sex tell her she should make some dinner and eat it with her. For example.

But what I do not mean is: "submit to her". And if you have to ask her can I fuck your pussy, you will be submitting to her big time. Everybody is different, and for me either she is in my frame or we have no business seeing each other. I literally even do not want to spend time with any women who is not in my frame.

Of course, it is different when you are in LTR and you have daughter with her.

So I guess nuclear option is out of the way..have you considered withholding sex from her? When she starts questioning about it, tell her you will have sex when she gets her shit together. She should figure it out.

My girlfriend suddenly wants me to stop being so dominant during sex

So far so good, but something else is disturbing. She doesn't want me to call it "my pussy" but hers. She doesn't mind if I ask her "whose pussy it is", although I should tell her "I'm fucking your pussy". This makes her feel like a whole woman and desirable. I'm also supposed to ask her "Can I fuck your pussy". Apparently it turns her on more and the other turns her off more.

Sounds like she wants to pull me into her frame or is it simply her sexual preferences?

You say "suddenly" this has happened? how long before this changed?

Honestly it sounds like she's transitioning you towards a beta relationship. You've shown commitment and this has devalued your alpha-ness in her eyes, and now shs's closing the beta trap around you.

How long you been seeing each other.... 2-3 years?

You already are deep within her frame.

Notice how many times you used the words "she" and "her" here. Not a single sentence spent on what your own sexual preferences are. Even asking yourself: "shit test or preference?" is a symptom of you being inside her frame.

Why do you say she's yours in a "harsh tone"? Why do you say her pussy is yours? Is it because that gets you off, or is it because you're a dancing monkey wanting to come off as "alpha" in her eyes? Are you afraid she'll lose desire for you if you don't? Are you picturing red pill guys shitting all over you? Point is: Are you operating from your own frame, her frame, or perhaps the frame of random dudes online?

Let's say these are preferences, or something she'd like some of the time: Are these requests in opposition to whatever gets you off?

Let's say she's looking for a bit more comfort and security (beta): Do you have a problem with that? Do you perhaps think you should have a problem with that? Or would perhaps a bit more lubby-dubbyness even be desirable to you too? I mean, she's the mother of your child, you're the father of hers. Is it weird if that sometimes demands something a bit different in the whole whore-madonna / alpha-beta dynamics?

Are you sexually frustrated at all?

Try to think about everything in the context of you - not her, and not what red pill guys would say.

This is gonna be a rough landing...

Have quality time with your daughter, make sure that, at least, property that was yours before will remain yours forever - because you seem to be one pussy short, post-birth.

I would just call these preferences. They sound really fucking annoying, but that is how it is with some women.

My main girl requires torturously slow moves with 72 hours of foreplay. It's not a shit test just what she needs to get off as long as you two are consistently fucking, there isn't a problem, just annoying preferences.

Tell this girl what gets you off and see if you can develop something that works for both of you. If she's unwilling to budge, then you officially have a problem.