Worth noting: 1. I’m aware that not all church girls are quality.
- I don’t intend to spin plates at church (obviously that would cause a crazy dynamic)
I have decided that I want to actually meet women in real life. This includes cold approach as well as clubs, and also community groups such as church. Yes I am a Christian.
Although I’m not specifically looking for an LTR, I want to start filtering for girls who aren’t fucking club sluts (yes, I know church girls can be club sluts as well… but less likely than when you actually seek out girls at the club).
Is this actually possible? I found a youth group that fits my age. I looked at their social media and the dynamic with the hot girls is either: 24+ or so and married or like 20 and not married. I’m about to be 28. And I’m sure there are more singles than just 20 year olds.
Up until now I’ve met all my women through online dating or clubs and I would like variety.. sluts are great but kind of soul sucking.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 7h ago
women at church:
You have a better chance of finding a decent woman in a church but you have the all squares are rectangles but not all rectangled are squares problem
Every woman In a club is a slut, not every woman in a church is not a saint
Wintergreen 4h ago
Good points, I’m still gonna just assume that each one is a slut until proven otherwise.
This is just part of my plan to spend more time interacting with people. I’m not thinking “I need a church girl” but rather “I need to meet girls in different types of places. Not excluding the clubs entirely but also not making clubs the only place.”
SeasonedRP 6h ago
I'd be leery of any church that pushes a message that men exist to sacrifice for and serve others, and that's a lot of them. Churches mostly appeal to women, and church culture pushes a message of female superiority; they treat men basically as defective women who are more sinful than women and who need to be more like women. Avoid a woman who has bought into the message of a church like that. You definitely don't want to get hitched to some woman who thinks you are supposed to obey and serve her. If the hymns are sappy, romantic love songs to Jesus, chances are you're in such a church.