unironically from my experience looks & game, knowning how to socialize in every conditions if far more important than money/status & try harding the gym
Girls make their own money, most of the girls i recently dated were usually very happy to pay for dates, splits the bill, pay me gift, i actually never met a girl who was after money (im in western europe)
i feel like if a girl like you, it actually make her happy to pay stuff for you
Status feels like it matters only if you have a BIG social proof in your city, or if you are a well known actor, singer, athlete and that's it, being a CEO, a lawyer or a doctor won't make girls wet
I went from tryharding the gym 6x times a week with some steroid cycles to going to the gym 2x times a week with 0 supplements / roids
i lost like 15lbs of muscles, and girls actually prefer my actual physique ... as long as you are not skinny or obese, feels like body doesnt matter that much
I never had that much success with girls after i got my hair transplant, perfectly clean shaving everyday & started to be very good at socializing by praticizing
great looks combined with being extremly good in social settings seems very powerful in my experience
What's your take on this subject ? (only on attracting girls purpose)
SwarmShawarma 1d ago
You dont walk twice into the same river. observations about yourself might be valuable or not at all, since you will have them very subjective.
I liked rian's podcata about man being a commodity good more than ever. To make it something outstanding you want to make yourself a luxury good.
Women dont need men, they earn, but they will pay good for an avocado, cheap bread from toaster, lettuce leaf if you present it right and call it exotically.
That will come from ie high standards, treating yourself highly..
That overlaps with your observations.
RAFADM 22h ago
How did you improve your social skills
MidgetSpinner 18h ago
I'm living proof of your post as well. I can 100% verify the truth of what you're saying, in my own experience. I don't know about others. I've never been rich or had mega status, and girls were willing to pay for everything regardless of whether I asked or not.
mattyanon Admin 1d ago
They like slim.... you might actually look better to women with less bulk.
Body matters a lot.
Social status matters more.
Wintergreen 1d ago
Yeah tbh I don’t think women actually like the steroid look that much. I think they liked shredded guys with muscle. And the steroid look actually isn’t healthy.. 75 pounds of muscle is not any healthier than 75 pounds of fat, and this is something bodybuilders claim.
I think women who fucked jacked guys who have physiques that aren’t attainable naturally either do it for the novelty or they’re just weird and have a fetish for that. Look at Sam Sulek now vs Alex Eubank pre-steroids and tell me which physique looks better.
mattyanon Admin 9m ago
Yep!
actually it's a LOT more healthy