One way of coming at this is like a fault tester with an electrical circuit. Something is missing here or your dick would be wet. Lets test the different components objectively until we find the fault. This means consciously working on one area or another while trying it with potential girls until you find the fault. It is quite a bit of work, so I would start with whatever your friends consider is your weakest area. Just ask you male friends when you are together to tell you what they think is your weakest area. They may sugar coat it a bit for you but they will also want to touch on the truth.

You could elaborate a bit on "We text and it ends when she flakes" How many times have you met these girls, how did you find them. Men can spend a lot of time chasing the wrong girls to start. When you are a hot guy with great game (like a lot of the guys who do self help videos for guys) this doesn't matter too much because you chase 10 girls and one lets you catch her briefly but if you are evidently not top 10 or 20%, you could try approaching 100 girls and get nowhere because you didn't think about who you would be a good fit for, who is available, who is gong to see you as high enough value, you just thought "has pussy, will ask"

To get specific answers, I would post more of your experiences and people can help you specifically but to start with try to look at the components of the game and your target selection.

Did you read the sidebar, Pook, Rollo?

Are you a simp? Do you have any game? Are you drunk/high and depressed?

Looksmaxxing

I highly doubt it. I've seen you guys say looksmaxxed and post your pics before and it's a joke. Anyone seriously using the word "looksmaxxed is in fact far from it

Blackpilled

The fact you're even typing that word in a red pill post and using a black pill word "looksmaxxed" says it all. Stop consuming black pill content entirely, it's retarded

Bro your post has like no actionable details what are you expecting here? You've given us almost zero underlying symptoms to diagnose

If you're getting ghosted before the date your social skills and game suck. And i highly doubt you're looksmaxxed. No way. And even if you were, your game is not good

So you're getting no bitches huh.

Reading the sidebar is great but you gotta put in the work. Go to a club,approach hotties in the street, update your online dating profiles, chat,get numbers etc, do something about it.

And also,post here your field reports with plenty of details. Emphasis on the details part, a lot of guys here will gladly help you out.

Looksmaxxing is an incel tell. It shows that you've been reading pure bullshit from other idiots that have no social skills. Try talking to people and online dating for a start.

We have no idea what work you've done or anything you tried, so this is a worthless conversation.