A girl recently met messaged me today kinda out of the blue saying "I hope you're having a good day tell me about you"
Met already met once and had a blast. The last thing I want to do is get into text message ping pong so how about I put this:-
"Let's find a day to meet and I'll tell you all about me. If you need to schedule really far in advance I don't mind I need that too sometimes"
What are your thoughts? I need to be quicker at getting from messaging to meeting I think.
derdeutscher 3w ago
Not good bro, not good. Not good at all.
"Lets catch up for a coffee next week. I will write when Im available".
hierophantoracle 3w ago
I had this situation recently and it was as simple as being upfront.
"I'd like to get to know you but I'd rather do that in person. When you do that by text, it means we have less to discover in person.Also, I'm kept pretty busy so I don't spend a lot of time on my phone. It's a personal choice."
hierophantoracle 3w ago
Then of course set up the next meeting or: "The next week will be busy, starting a new job. The following Saturday,it would be great to meet up. How does that work for you?"
"Yeah that works... blah blah blah"
"Great. Then we can get in touch closer to then to confirm and arrange specifics."
I don't like arranging dates too far away so it's better to mark a general time, but contact within that week to go on a date. Avoids flaking imo
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
Have you read the sidebar
noonenoname00 3w ago
Yes I have
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
Okay, well it looks like you absolutely haven't
Why would you respond to a text of interest with some extremely simpish ultra needy extra available autism text then?