your course of action?

ffs. You ignore. That's the only thing you found on her phone?

Sounds like she is complaining to herself that you are not acting like a little bitch. which is good news - I'm glad to hear that you are not complying with her stupid little demands.

if there is one way to kill a womans respect its to do what she wants you to do.

LTR has written notes in her phone about how she's dissatisfied with how I'm acting.

So she talks to your phone but not to you.

Examples are, me not thinking of her when shopping for my own clothes.

You are NOT COMPLYING with her narcissism.

Me not helping her with her luggage (not intentional on my part)

You are not being psychic

Me not giving her money packets for Chinese New Year (I'm asian).

Uh oh

What is my course of action for this? She doesn't know I saw her phone.

She sees you as a bad beta. You are being seen as beta, and you are not providing for her and you are not psychically giving her what she wants without her asking.

This is fucking terrible my dude. She doesn't respect you and is not prioritising how awesome it is to just be allowed to be around you.

What to do:

Have super hot sex with her then ignore her for a week.

She's just saving ammo for future shit/comfort tests. Typical woman stuff. Just be prepared for whenever she does test you. The best course of action is to either STFU or pressure flip her tests.

Your course of action should be stop caring about this kind of shit. Do you.

Besides, some respect for other peoples privacy?

Oof. I would leave, but you do you my teriyaki-munching friend

It could be ammo, it could be break up material,it could be a petty resentful girl, could be all. Have some Peking duck and forget about it,really, and stop looking through her stuff.Not worth it.

It is not that ignorance is bliss,it is just better for your frame to not find out about these things cause now youre gonna be wondering when shes going to throw some shit at you.

LTR

how long have you two been in a relationship?

I would recommend simply being more romantically involved, try gifting her more stuff, whether it is stuff you bought or not. She’s eventually gonna use these for arguments if she ever breaks with you, also for sort of tests for sure.

Also try thinking more of what to do with her, you need to instinctively do some actions, like helping her, still unsurprising that she noted all these.