First part https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/323766/fr_potential_aw_put_her_asd_due_to_me_wanting_to_take_a_dum

I'll try to keep this one short. After coming back home she suggested that she will come to mine to sleepover. Yesterday we met, we were hugging talking kissing etc. Then I went to shower, she went after me. It was getting late so we were lying in bed, I started to kiss her, she was visibly enjoying it, I went down to her neck, she started moaning. We were lying side to side, so I put her on top of me, we kissed and I ordered her to remove the shirt. She did it and said "thanks, it's hot here". I went to unzip her bra and she said in laughing voice "uh uh" like a no. I thought she tries to dominate or something so went again, more firmly and she said "no, what are doing?". This kind of behaviour is ofputting to me because I would rather have fuck yes than to drag myself through the battlefield of shittests. She then leans back to my face smiling and says something like "are you feeling mogged?". At this point I lost all interest as my immersion was killed. She lays on top of me and I didn't really wanted to break through her jokes or asd I don't really know because honestly shits retarded at this point. I threw her of me and it was clear that there is not going to be any sex, in my mind I wanted her to leave but her bus was in 5h. I don't really remember how, but we started talking, she said she didn't want to have sex on 3rd date because sex for her is something most valuable she can give, she didn't want to get hurt because she saw condoms next to bed (they were hidden but somehow she found them) and when she was showering she saw shower gels that were used by obviously some woman. She said she didn't want to be my next bitch for fucking, that she feels so safe with me it's special and she was afraid that after sex I would stop being interested in her. I forgot most of the conversation but when we were lying trying to sleep she was so concerned she said she feels sick, she might cried at some point even. Before she was leaving she asked me if I still like her, and when she was leaving she asked if I could come to her this weekend. I said I will think about it as I want to sleep right now, she said "that explains everything". As we were standing close to doors we hugged and kissed and she left.

What the fuck is this situation? When we talked after second attempt I was just not giving s fuck about her but wanted more informations out of her to improve my future lays and I know she had boyfriends and one fwb, but none ons, and she told me they all were dating long time before having sex.

And also she seemed like she wanted to give me bj after hour of talking of the situation but I don't like pity sex so told her that my stomach aches (which was true but if not for the situation I would propably go for it).

Edit: she sent me some text, I google translated it so if you are curious you can check it out but sometimes it loses context https://imgur.com/a/n8RdrYE