Been getting close with this girl at work. Im quitting the company this month, and moving, but she doesn’t know that.

I am confused. She constantly texts me clearly trying to get my attention always asking what im doing etc. She brought up how we’ve never seen each other out of work and I said we should.

A week later she comes back from a work trip with gifts for only me. So I ask her to get drinks at place we talked about previously. She says she’s busy all wknd but sh’d let me know if it fell thru. Can confirm she actually did have plans the entire wknd. But regardless I started giving one word replies bc she didn’t propose an alternative and she starts sending me paragraphs of texts how shes been traveling a lot blah blah blah. She hits me up that night asking if I was out and I say nah an she says I was hoping you were.

I never initiate and she’s trying harder sometimes double or triple texting, she asked if I was mad at her and everyday asks to get coffee.

So she drunk texts me like she does everytime she drinks. Says we shouldve taken the train home together bc we were out at newrby places. So I propose we get drinks after work and she says she has her workout class. But says it would be nice to do one day, no specific time.

I don’t know if Im just being dense but is she purposefully deflecting plans seems like she would name an alternative date if she was really excited. Should I just straight up ask her if she wants to go on a date or not? She’s home alone this week.

She just texted me as im writing this smh asking if I was there bc she didn’t see me.

Also secondary question a lot of girls will ask me if im out or if im going tell me I should go out to a bar there at, but wont agree to dates. Most of them bring it up too. Why is that?