I’ve been with girl for 2.5 years. She is a family member of my best friend and we met in PR. We started seeing each other every weekend. I live in NorCal and she lives in SoCal. We both made the efforts to met each other. She fit and attractive but she has had a bunch of bad relationships and daddy issues. Long story short after a year and a half I met her family and got a marriage license. NOT MARRIED TO HER. And she agreed to move in with me in NorCal. She didn’t have much going on with her life but just apply to medical school. I’ve helped her out financially but after 2.5 years she wants out after she got accepted into Med school. She told me I’m not her type because I’m unfit, sloppy, and poor social skills. She will be staying at my pad till she starts school which is in 6 months. What should I do and should I even consider to try to get back with her
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latindumpster 3d ago
Thx you guys for the feedback. I’m going through it rn and I wanted to hear your guy’s opinions. This post is real and I’m not trolling. Like most of you guys on this website we all make mistakes in life. I cherish and will apply you guys opinions what I see fit in my life. Probably won’t make good decisions for a while but I could only go up from here
MrSupreme 5d ago
She used you,she got what she needed from you and now wants you out of the picture. Kick her out,zero contact and find yourself some girls to hang out with,who appreciate you.
Also, read the sidebar material to avoid being used like you just got.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5d ago
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 5d ago
Look man. You made a ton of sloppy decisions. Like my satire tribe would have a hard time topping how foolish these were.
Annul the license ASAP. If she isn't paying rent or legally on the lease have her evicted. Why the fuck you were doing anything of this simpy provider shit? Get her out of your life yesterday and don't look back
Musicgoon78 2 5d ago
She used you for a free ride. Dump her and release her back to the streets. Why do you bend over to treat someone well, when they treat you like shit?
First-light 5d ago
No, you should not consider getting back with her. Do you really want someone so shallow and selfish to be tied to you? DO you want to be trying to improve yourself just to be good enough for her? Do you think that when she becomes a DR, she will even notice you are alive?
It would be best to tell her to find alternative accommodation. It will be very hard not to simp for her while she is around and feel bad about it.
But you can take her advice on the being unfit and lacking social skills things. This will improve your chances of getting someone nice.
Also take the lesson about marriage. Imagine if you had gone through with it...
StrongWoman 5d ago
"She fit and attractive but she has had a bunch of bad relationships and daddy issues"
Congratulations, YOU are now also one of her bad relationships she will tell future victims about. "My previous boyfriend was super cringe, he was not fit and had really poor social skills, and after I told him I wanted more in life he became super abusive and wanted to kick me out" So, to help her tell this story, you should kick her out now.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 4d ago
How is this shit even real life
redhawkes 2 4d ago
6/10 troll bait, can't believe people here fell for it lmaoo
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4d ago
If it actually is it will be sorted soon
ballubhai 3d ago
I think you might want to classify OPs username as one of the "loser usernames".
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
His username was made before the announcement and it's unclear who what dumpster is referring to