who said anything about making new friends? I mean you should try and slap the autism out of yourself by going out there and talking to strangers IRL. You don't need the to be friends.

Let me ask you - whey you go to a cafe, do you talk to the people around you? do you chat to the old man in the line behind you? do you make jokes with the young guy behind the corner? do you? I bet you don't. i bet you have your airpods in and you say 2 words.

You know how I know ? Because the guys that have social skills have zero issue meeting women. I know what you are thinking - talking to the old man behind you in a line is not the way to pick up women.... and you are so wrong.

Women HATE men that approach them and have no social skills. They love confident men that can talk to anyone with zero fucks given about the outcomes. they love men with options, men that they know could pick up any girl in any situation.

if you can't even talk to an old man on the train, you are not that guy. work on it.

Because you and the dozens of other cocks on offer to her every day are doing the same boring shit to trying to text your way into panties.

That makes you fungible. Replaceable. Boring.

High value men don't text constantly, they're too busy using their cock to rearrange guts. Thus why they only use texting for logistics - getting the P and the V to the same location for smash.

Note for the spergs - knowing how to do this while allowing the woman to maintain her delusion of plausible deniability is key, which is why you have to have an interesting life filled with fun but ultimately inconsequential activities that are easily interrupted by you plungering her holes with your cock should the mood strike the two of you. This is part of why musicians and artists get laid so easy despite often not being sw0l3 and possibly also even being awkward fuckers in general.

TLDR; have a "platonic" hobby/excuse for getting her in the same private location as you.

YOU know you're just inviting her over to smash.

SHE knows you are inviting her over just to smash.

BUT she gets a ready made excuse for why she went there that is not smash so she doesn't look like an easy hoe. Yes, you both know she's a hoe. So do the last 30 guys that smashed. But she doesn't want to have to openly admit it!

IF she does not accept said invite, activity on offer was either too boring, too obvious, or she simply didn't want you to begin with. Move on to a new woman if so, do not let your self spiral into analysis paralysis trying to solve a specific pussy puzzle, it's a waste of time and energy.

Everyone says women like texting

They do, but not for the same reason you want them to. They get easy validation/attention, and they don't have to put in any effort to filter the guys that got nothing going on outside of text game since that's all those guys offer.

Clue by four time: the key to success at text game is to have good fun stuff going on outside of text game. Or akin to how @Vermillion-Rx noted, being hotter than Henry Cavill - then you can get away with "hay bby want sum fuck". Everyone else is going to have to put in more effort that that though.

And there was never any question of that. The only real question is if the particular hole you are trying to stick your pee pee into is even worth that effort.

Just burst my bubble why don't ya? Made me look in the mirror just in case. Nope, I'm not Henry Cavill. I'm heading for the gym.