Youngest I've ever pulled was 19 when I was in my 40s. It's always possible. Don't let this info get you down it just sounds like your approach is off or you're going about it wrong. If you're striking out with the 18-19 ones, then focus on the 21s. Don't go and ask them out. You need to make friends with some guys, get to know them well, get invited to some parties or frat houses. When the girls arrive, you're both already drinking, the atmosphere is a party type, easily leads to escalating fast and girls who are giving you the right signals aren't gonna care too much about your age.

I (36) have tried approaching a few young (20-21) girls recently, for some reason they have this deer-on-headlights look to them, like they're completely oblivious to any sort of game going on,as if it couldn't be possibly happeniong because of the age difference, unless the old man was tooo sexual (in which case it is just attention for them)

i haven't been too overtly sexual since it has only been a few convos,,and they can chat for a bit just fine, but they're completely offline. Maybe it's me since it has happened a few times. I met one guy around that age that was having a video call with his gf, and he sounded like an absolute childish cartoon, more like a 10yr old talking with a girl, i remember one bit of conversation that made me puke that went: "the dog is sniffing the other dog's butt! they're butt sniffing buddies hehehe".... i puked internally.

I may not be Mr.Grown Up Man, but jeez it seems hard to pull that shit, I have dated girls 10 years younger when i was around 28, but now they're almost 20 years younger, it is me that has changed,so how do i calibrate my game to this?

There were a couple of older guys in my extended University group and they all did very well for themselves with women.

I get the feeling that the age-gap is it's own sort of mental wall in your head that probably exposes itself in your interactions.

If anything, with your age comes experience, maturity and better dick. If you have found revealing your age early on kills interest then... don't do it. Turn it into a game, into a tease and only reveal it once you have some investment whether it be a dance, a kiss or a lay.

Once a girl is into you, the fact you're old will be a bonus that she can giggle to her friends about.

I am 37 and have no problems scoring anywhere between 20 and 50.

I dont know how. I look good, have calm presence, easy going, and lots of muscles. Some of it hits the right buttons.

And no its not money. I picked up chicks after work still wearing my blue collar electrician working suit. And with safety vest as well. So no, I dont look like i habe lots of money.

Alright I’m 29 finishing up college right now.

1. In college aged game (and tbh in real life) money doesn’t get you bitches. or at least none that genuinely are attracted to you. ex: I was fat as fuck when I got my first lux watch and I really thought every girl would just take her panties off as soon as she saw I had money. Same lifelong approach of “hey you’re hot as fuck let’s take shots” was met with some variation of “oh sorry I have a boyfriend”. As soon as I got back in good shape, with or without the watch the response to same proposal was met with a more or less enthusiastic “fuck yeah let’s do it”. Money doesnt make a girl’s panties wet… a good physique does.

2. In the undergrad environment, from the perspective of 20-21yos someone is viewed as weird and out of place for being older. This is the primary resistance that arises with being older trying to bag younger chicks (esp in a college town environment). Best ways to combat this are:

A) social proof (befriend younger guys that are in the “in crowd” so to speak and roll up to the bars together). If you can get a solid group to accept you, you will no longer be in the “creepy older guy at the college bar by himself” bucket.

b) have a good vibe; be charismatic, social outgoing and confident.

c) recurring theme: have a good physique. you need to be at the very least comparable to the other 20-21yo dudes who are your competition and way better off if you can be in the top 10-20% or higher of physiques around campus.

Also important: do not get discouraged. Some girls will pretty much immediately lose interest once you tell them your age. Is what it is; there’s always more fish in the sea. Abundance mindset (and actual abundance) is key here. If you look passably young enough you could maybe round down to like 26 but that is morally plausible.

If you’ve been in the same position, what’s your top advice to get with young girls?

Firstly don't hide your age. You are the mature, worldly, attractive guy with a wealth of experience to offer. Obviously be in fucking good shape, there's no getting away from physical attractiveness. But no hiding your age or pretending to be young when you're not.

Secondly - some girls are into an older guy, some are not. You're rolling the dice with every interaction...... but there are plenty of young women who are VERY into a confident older guy. Don't waste your time on those that aren't, and build something amazing with those that are.

You're doing something very wrong. I can tell that it starts with your attitude. First off, you're misinformed. Guys hit their peak SMV in their 30's and 40's. Guys in their 20's are disadvantaged. Now, if you want your age to be a problem, it absolutely will be. You can easily turn your age into an insurmountable obstacle when it's an advantage. It's all about how you frame it.

I'm in the later half of my 40's. Last week I met the hottest 24 year old blond that I've ever known. Jaw dropping hot. She wants to fuck. And she likes me because I'm older. Why does she like older guys? Because the know what they want, they're assertive and the know how to fuck. And she wants to fuck. I'm very happy to have a fucking baddie on this dick. And even happier that I get to have her and my LTR at the same time.

I'm older than you and not rich. So why are you making this a problem?