On one hand, I don’t want to share my women with anybody. On the other hand, plates are not really my women, and it’s just my turn with them, so why should I be bothered?
Say one of your plates was going on a trip for a few months. You know she’s going to get drilled by some foreign cock. Would you be down to see her again once she’s back? Or would you just replace her then and there?
Technically I should just be able to slap a rubber on it, get my nut off and go about my day as if nothing happened, but at the same time it’s kind of weird. It’s an interesting conundrum to me.
P.S. Now that I think about it, my inability to accept the fact that plates will be promiscuous may be just me living in la la land and thinking we have something special going on, when in reality it’s no more special of a relationship than what you and your favorite prostitute from the red light district have. Thoughts?
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coolsocks00 1 2d ago
It’s not either or. Plates are simply all the girls who are either in the Just For Fun category or are still in the vetting race.
When a girl displays red flags to an extent you’re not interested in, you ditch her or keep her in the Just For Fun category until you find someone either more fun or more suitable to be vetting.
These lines of reasoning will sour any relationship. It’s silly black pill esque mentality. Embracing an abundance mentality is not something you do so girls like you better, thats just a side effect, it’s a mindset you embrace to have a better life, even when you are alone.
Musicgoon78 2 2d ago
Really you can't make rules or boundaries until she's a girlfriend.
It's a personal thing. Decide what's acceptable for you and stick with it. Almost every woman you interact with will come certified pre-fucked. It is what it is.
Kloi 1d ago
This.
You can try and tell her no but most women won't play that game long, especially without a title.
Mofreer 2d ago
The concept of having plates is to not be as emotionally involved with them as to ask these questions
Dxmx99 1d ago
A plate is a friend with a special cock holster