My own answer: Club pull rates have to be around 10% or maybe my game is just bad / unwilling to stay past 1am
Hi everyone, to preface this is more of a rant. But seriously, is it just me or most of the time you go out clubbing, you usually can't really do more than k-close. I can't fully s**t on clubs, because the hottest girl I've ever pulled has been from one (everyone else from OLD or natural LTRs), but I had to have either gotten lucky that one time or I'm not sure. Could someone enlighten me with some club game or offer some advice?
I went out alone tonight and got sufficiently drunk to vibe with some groups, made out with one 7/10 chick but she was with 4 of her friends and isolating was basically impossible. I tried to chat up some of the other ones to keep my focus off of her, she was feeling me physically but randomly 2 minutes later she no longer wasn't.
I went elsewhere, chatted up some chicks who apparently are regulars (they remember me from 1 year ago), I got a bunch of 5/10 ones gravitating towards me but there's so many dudes on the outside and all the girls are vibing with their own friend groups. If I wear more "sus" outfits that come across fruity I'm more welcomed into them but I'm not sure.
Any advice on night game? Sorry I recognize I am a bit tipsy and this has been more of a rant but I'm seriously looking for night game advice. I look great physically but am more introverted however with enough liquid courage I usually have a good time until I'm not. Thoughts?
Also 50% of the people in the club are either gassed up regulars and if you fail to make a good first impression it doesn't seem like you can salvage that next time around.
derdeutscher 4d ago
Days of night game are long gone. But if you want to pay expensive drinks, entrance, and get drugged with alcohol in order to pull some night hoe, while listening to terrible music at the same time, 10% success rate is not even so bad.
mattyanon Admin 4d ago
look..... it's clubs.
it's where women go to get attention
go to bars where you can actually talk
Lone_Ranger 2 3d ago
where they go to get attention....
exactly right.
They get plenty of attention. They might not even be there to get laid.
Chicks nowadays just want attention and validation.
don't be part of it.
Wintergreen Didn't Read Sidebar (confirmed) 6d ago
10% in what way? 1/10 girls you approach?
Personally I’m kind of getting annoyed with clubs. I’m tired of the alcohol, late nights, long drive home, etc. I also don’t have any respect for the people there. I want to find another way to meet women. I know AWALT but I still think there are varying degrees of trashy, and any woman who is enjoying themselves at a club seems trashy to me.
Musicgoon78 2 5d ago
Clubs are dog shit places to get women. You spend hours of time and buy watered down drinks to spit incomprehensible game in to some hoes ear. And I mean literally spit. Most of the hoes there are low value and drunk or looking for any dick. You can only have conversations outside or in a bathroom hallway.
I have zero clue why all these spergs think that they are going to meet their future wife here. Or think that they can pull like a famous rapper or something.
Your results are shit because of your reliance on a terrible place to.meet women.
Find a girl somewhere else then take her dancing at the club over a weekend.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5d ago
@kv2_0833 If you want night game to work you have to go to a place it actually works. I've lost track of how many hoes I've pulled night gaming, but I do it at a place where there's already a ton of touching, gauranteed conversations, and I have massive (earned over time) clout.
I would not have the same results outside of this environment. Even when I went to a dance hall in a different state women were giving me mad fuck me eyes and I'm sure i could have fucked there too, if not for the fact I was visiting the chick I was dating. I was getting too much attention and she started having random conversations with me to keep me off the dance floor and kept snooping on my conversations even though they were all banal.
I've had women try to pull me from similar venues venues even one city over.
Yeah, you CAN clean up at night game, situationally, but otherwise you need to be top tier. I would jump off a bridge if i relied on night game at normal bars
No-Stress-Cat 5d ago
Actually, 10% isn't that bad. Sounds like you're doing something right.