Me and the boys went to the nearby city to a club. I'll be honest, I'm not the most attractive nor the ugliest, but I have the most balls and a will to try approaching even though some of my boys laugh when I fail, but fuck 'em.
I had 3 sets of girls, I failed every one of them (didn't have a good convo, didn:t get a number). At least, I talked to 6 girls and that's a big achievement for me. Also, I used the same opener for every set.
1st set of girls I went to, talked, introduced myself, but I lost interest and they also did since they're way older than me.
2nd set of girls - 1 was attractive, but didn't say a word. The uglier started talking to me and was pretty bitchy so I left, she showed no interest. It may be her insecurity that blocked me from talking to them, since she was 3 points below from the girl next to her.
3rd set of girls - I went with a buddy and I did all the talking. They were the most attractive set, as I started the approach, the prettier one said: "No, just no". She didn't even give me a chance to talk at all, while the other chick didn't even look at me, not even once. Tbh, when I approached them, they were slouched, looking down, maybe they were annoyed, angry, depressed or just drunk.
The problem is, before these approaches, last approach was long ago and IG I fell off the practice. The opener was cheesy: Hey "random female name" I know you. Basically I pick a name then I talk to her like I know her, "are you her", "wdyd here".
I thought it would be a good test, a chick which really liked me would just smile and answer "yes that's me". But, as I said, I don't think the opener matters that much, all that matters if the chick likes me right away.
Also I didn't have as much confidence as I do now, and that plays a part. Maybe I was unlucky, I think if I just found maybe more of them I'd atleast get a number from one of them.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 8h ago
2 more field reports and I'll remove your flair (as long as you don't post any more forum questions in that time). Except the next field reports need to be on singular women. I don't know what you were expecting approaching a group of women as a newbie. That isn't how you take off the training wheels or get any meaningful feedback or retrospection. Stick to basics.
There are a lot of mistakes in this field report. I'll analyze them because there is a reason you're stuck in newbie mode If this is what your base assumptions for approaching are
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 7h ago
1) clubs are terrible. You're getting ripped off (exorbitant cover charges + expensive-ass drinks), the music is always too loud to converse, and all the women have their bitch shields set to maximum.
2)
I trust that you stopped trying right then and went on to do anything else in the world, right?
Or did you try to salvage what was doomed from the start? At the expense of your pride and your time?
3)
Did you really think this through?
You're actively filtering in favor of chicks who will lie to you about who they are, and filtering out all the ones who will give an honest "no, that's not me".
Is that really what you want?
It does, but not as much as whether she is already attracted. It can tip the scales if she's undecided, or completely ruin your chances of it's something retarded like "hey [insert random woman's name], I know you. What are you doing here?" Fuck, asking a chick "what are you doing here?' is just asking for the most sarcastic, bitchy response possible.
I recommend that if you're anywhere, such as a grocery store, and an attractive woman makes eye contact with you and smiles at you, you immediately open with "hi, I'm [whatever your RL name is]. That's a nice shirt/ jacket/ hat". It's straightforward, and instead of complimenting something she can't control like her eyes, you're complimenting her taste.