translation: i want to fuck other dudes and not feel guilty about it and keep you as a backup safety net if the other dudes pump and dump me

1. When a woman says "We have to talk" that means YOU have to listen.

2. When she does talk, she's setting the agenda.

3. As men, you never let someone else make the agenda.

You handled it well.

You the man OP. Go meet other women now.

good shit bro

OP what did she say to you after you told her you're not interested?

gratulations dude

Awesome, now block her on everything too.

Reminds me of my first LTR a very long time ago.

I ended up fucking her in the ass about a month after I walked away.

Remember, OP, she's anal only now.

You handled it well man. Embrace the suck for a few days/weeks, use it as fuel to be a better dude.

Don't go back, this is a perfect time for more improvement. Good luck.

Good job man. Real proud and I don’t even know you. Block her.

Next time, you will be smart enough to not entertain this horseshit. Never meet. It’s a waste of time. Go fuck ten other women.

You da man. She will be back, 100%, so be prepared to ignore her for the rest of your life. One chance, per girl, per lifetime. She blew hers. On to the next one, brother. Great job.

3.5 billion other women man. Don't sweat it.

Standing up for yourself can be uncomfortable if you're not used to it. It's easy to get intoxicated by your emotions.

Try to stay in the moment and be on the look out for irrational thoughts. "Yikes, she broke up with me! I must be unlovable or bad in bed or I'm ugly and nobody will love me." When you catch yourself having an irrational thought, examine it and try and think about things rationally. You have no real idea why she actually broke up with you and it possibly has much more to do with her than you. You'll find someone else and, almost assuredly, someone better suited to you.

Big pat on the pack for keeping your dignity and not getting dragged around the room by someone else.

You handled it well, make sure to block her on everything to prevent the temptation of getting back with her.

Odds are good it’s not “other dudes” in a generic sense, but one particular dude she wants to attempt a monkey-branch too while keeping you as a safety net.

If u go back op u lose. Trust me. Been in your shoes.

Great response on your part.

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Well done. I know it stings. But you can hold your head high, with respect for yourself as a Man.

Haha don't feel.like shit hold your head high. Any other response you could offer would really really make you feel like shit. And believe it or not, that includes whatever you could say to make her stay. You handled it perfectly. She's probably all upset and unsure now.

Fucking perfect response. Exactly what I would've done. I feel liberated on your behalf! lol

What if she came back to you? Would you demote her to a plate?