So I have this friend let's call her Ella.
Me and her have been friends since we were approx 10yo, have shared intimate details about our lives, came to each other for advice on countless occasions etc.
I value her friendship and character but the problem is I wanna fuck her. I am 20yo, she's 19yo.
We've talked about what we like in the bedroom casually and we're very much compatible, eerily.
In the past we've done sexual stuff a few times since we were teens, but never fucked.
I'll name a few:
- She got drunk and came on to me asking me to finger her.
- I was drunk and in an LTR that was just about to end (literally I broke up with my LTR the next day), she invited me over to her house while I was drunk and she was sober. I fingered her, she gave me a blowjob, and right as I am about to fuck her (my dick is literally in her), she says no you have a girlfriend. After I ended things with girlfriend I acted beta (at this point I wasn't aware of TRP) and didn't try fuck her.
Now my SMV has increased , I feel mutual attraction and would like to have a FWB situation.
Problem is the complications that can follow. I have no interest in an LTR with her, I just wanna fuck her.
How should I proceed and is it worth it?
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DDS2826 3y ago
Thanks man appreciate the advice
whytehorse2021 3y ago
What are you talking about? I married my friend. Just start fucking and if she's wife material keep it going. Wives don't have to be the hottest on the planet, just hot enough to put your dick in them.
DDS2826 3y ago
True, she's a 6 - more like 7. Doesn't hoe around, has her shit somewhat together she's one of my best friends. I am 20yo though it's too early for me, want to fuck her though. It would be great sex, I'll proceed carefully.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
It's not too early. Before women entered the workforce in droves a man could land a job straight out of college and get paid enough to support a wife and kids. The blue pill world has made us believe you have to be 35 to reach peak SMV but it's an artificial shift because modern women want to do the cock carousel and careerism crap based on feminist lies. Well you know what? Fuck them. Do what you want anyway. Just make sure you've vetted her for 2 years and don't fall for that exclusive sex trick. Go for an exclusive relationship with non-exclusive sex.
kend 3y ago
Start touching her more and she will change her behavior around you. When she starts falling in love with you kiss her. It worked for me anyway.
DDS2826 3y ago
There's an established dynamic its hard to change but I'll work on it. I don't want love though man, being honest I'd just like for things to remain how they are being close friends with the occasional fuck.
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DDS2826 3y ago
Yeah man it's like as if in the past she has used alcohol as an excuse to escalate with me.
Even in my previous LTR in front of her boyfriend and my girlfriend she was all over me, my girlfriend said it but I didn't notice. Alcohol played a part in me not noticing but also because I didn't pay too much attention because our SO's were there.
I'll give it a shot
unplugged69 3y ago
Godspeed brother, let us know how it works out.