Summary: Women live boring lives. Work, sleep, food, drink, internet, music, TV, and dating. That’s it. When you’re on a date and the woman seems boring because she’s waiting expectantly for you to say or do something that entertains her, that’s not because she’s boring. It’s because she’s bored. The root cause of women’s problems is that they’re bored and don’t know how to entertain themselves. They get on Tinder because they’re bored. They have casual sex because they’re bored. They go on dates with guys they’re not even interested in because they’re bored. If you can fix a woman’s boredom for a little bit, you’re in.

Men who frequently date often complain that the women they meet are boring. This doesn’t stop us from having sex with them, of course, but it does irritate some of us. Because when a woman is boring, the man feels like he has to carry the entire conversation and put on a dancing monkey act to entertain her, all for a chance at sex. If you’re the kind of man who gets laid often, this probably doesn’t seem that bad to you. After all, what’s a few drinks and talking with some girl from the internet for an hour before you go home to fuck? The kind of men who don’t get laid or get laid less often tend to complain about this more.

The root cause of this issue isn’t that women are boring, per se, but that women are bored.

Most men have hobbies. The average guy does stuff, whether he’s into fitness, cars, cooking, brewing beer, or whatever else floats his boat. Even lame, nerdy guys with weird couch potato hobbies that barely count as hobbies throw themselves into those activities with a passion. There are guys who can spout off baseball stats for hours and talk your ear off about the football teams for colleges they never went to, and nobody they know ever went to. There are guys who will talk for hours about their online roleplaying game character or play video games for eight hours straight. Even when our hobbies are shitty, men are passionate about them.

Women aren’t like this. They don’t have hobbies. The day of an average woman who has a job and an apartment involves working, eating, and sleeping. The high points of her day are what restaurant she stops at or orders from after work, who she talks to during her lunch break, and maybe watching TV, fucking around on the internet, or browsing on Tinder/Bumble during the evening. If she’s actively dating, maybe she meets a guy for drinks after work. If she’s close with her friends or coworkers, maybe she meets some of them for drinks after work. She pretty much lives for the weekend, where her activities consist of eating at restaurants, drinking at bars, dancing at clubs, listening to music, and watching television. Eat, drink, consume media, and sometimes hang with friends who are doing the same things. This is the life of a woman.

Can you imagine if all you did was work, sleep, eat, and go out for food and drinks on the weekend and maybe hope you met a girl? How cripplingly bored you would be? How you would never have anything to talk about and how empty your life would feel?

Women aren’t much different. Women are bored, and they have no idea how to entertain themselves. They are dependent on consumption to be entertained. Constantly consuming food, drink, and media. This is why your government panders to women, by the way. Happy women consume shit. It’s good for the economy. Happy men save money and retire early. That’s less good for the economy. Countries prosper more when you’re unhappy and spend your time trying to make women happy, usually by buying shit.

When you meet a woman for a first date, she’s not just boring. She is bored. She is looking to you to entertain her, because without you, all she does is work, sleep, eat, drink, and consume media. She doesn’t have any hobbies. Going on dates with guys like you is her hobby. This is what she does for entertainment.

When a girl you match on Tinder tells you “I just got on Tinder because I was bored”, she’s not lying to cover up her sluttiness. She’s telling you the truth. She was bored, so she got on Tinder. She browses pictures of guys because she’s bored. She has casual sex because she’s bored. She goes on dates with guys, even guys she’s maybe not that interested in, because she’s bored.

And on those dates, she stares at you and waits for you to entertain her.

Some internet guys get very angry about this. Usually guys who can’t get laid. They stamp their feet and scream that women aren’t worth it, and that no man should put any effort into entertaining women in exchange for sex.

But look at this from the other side. Women are bored. All they do is drink and consume media. Their life is literally empty without you. How hard is it to be a little interesting, a little fun, and a little entertaining when you’re sitting next to some bored chick whose only hobbies are listening to music and watching Netflix?

She is a blank slate. This is your opportunity to lead the conversation, to show a woman a good time when she is blitheringly bored and down for anything, and to literally get laid for having fun.

Remember, women are bored. When you see a girl in line at a coffee shop fucking around on her cell phone, this is not an important message from overseas. She’s not closing a major business deal. She’s just bored and fucking around. You walking up to her may be the most interesting thing that happens to her today. Even if you fuck it up and she laughs at you, you still may be the most interesting part of her day. How cool is that? By taking life by the reins and actually living it, you can be the most interesting part of any woman’s day.

Look decent, recognize when a woman is bored, and fix that for her, and getting laid is easy.