I know you're supposed to time the alpha behaviours with when she's ovulating and the beta behaviours with when she's not but come on. How are you supposed to actually know and implement that? Yeah I know when she's menstruating and she's probably ovulating 2-3 weeks after that. I keep getting the timing kinda random and I hate doing the beta stuff like cuddling so we just end up 100% alpha crazy sex for a certain time and then it just cools off for a certain time. It's usually when she's ovulating and the sex goes non-stop until she menstruates and then I'm left hanging for 3-5 days.
I don't even think I'm interested in her during the non-ovulatory times. She shows interest but I'm just kinda like nah. Maybe that's normal. I dunno. We've tried the whole sleeping together naked thing and she likes that but then she gets her fill and then shuts down.
How do I raise that ovulatory sex rage when she's not ovulating? I was reading the sex god method and it just wasn't something that made sense to me. I'm obviously missing something. Thoughts?
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YourOwnDisaster 3y ago
A little more info that might help you
https://youtu.be/UfiL-JjbxSY
whytehorse2021 3y ago
That was so helpful. I can time things exactly now. With the right knowledge, marriage is red pill on easy mode.
urlkill 3y ago
I am new to this and didn't even know this was a thing at all. How can I find out more? My wife is on birth control atm and doesn't have periods anymore, does this change anything? Sorry I couldn't actually be helpful to your post man.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
The birth control thing is a question for a doctor. No periods indicate improper birth control meds, pregnancy, or menopause. She needs to get lab work, to be honest. If she's over 45 it's likely menopause and she could take hormone replacement therapy and continue being sexual for a long time but that's up to her and her doctor. I can definitely tell you that without HRT her body will be destroyed with osteoporosis, collagen loss, ageing basically.
Rollo Tomassi has 4 books now. I've only read the first but I think he deals with married stuff in the subsequent books. He is an excellent writer and his books are incredible. Fact based, references cited, concise, etc. He talks about the menstrual cycle and how women are in hot alpha sex mode during ovulation and beta comfort mode when not. He's been married 20+ years. Not an amateur. Practically invented red pill and definitely invented plate theory and connected all the dots to explain hypergamy and what not.