First official field report from me
Time gaming her: about 2 hours
Longer than ideal, but I used a well-rounded set of various different game techniques, so I just left them all in this report to demonstrate variety, and the skillful application of different techniques.
Also, secondary point of FR is to show you can blow a chance to pull even a year back and still succeed a year later. Defeat is often a mindset, not a solidified reality
Met HB7 with a great, fit body last July 2022, gonna call her S
Gamed her July 2022 and can tell she wants to be pulled at the 2-hour mark but I don't attempt because she lives in another city and I'm in between living situations that month (shit sucked)
instantly regretted that self-sabotoge, end up k-close her for the first time a couple months later in October when I see her there then but she works a mere 6 hours after place closes so not gonna happen (facepalm)
Didn't really ever see her there again after that night
FAST FORWARD LAST NIGHT/PRESENT DAY
Game is essentially same with her as July, don't fix what ain't broke, rinse and repeat. This FR might as well double as my July one had I pulled her then. Only difference was my vibe and confidence
Run into her last night, we make a few seconds of small talk and then I ask her to dance
She asks me if I want to get a drink and I say yeah. We go to four different bars in venue but the line is completely fucked for all of them. Take her to a beer line instead because it's short as fuck, she didn't know they existed, and she buys my beer unsolicited
female simping, fuck yeah
mild kino putting my arm around back/waist while we walk (less gay alternative to hand holding). She does it too after that
Beer in hand now, take her back to the lower level and she makes a lot of moves on me unprompted.
Ask her if she's ever had an "Angry Orchard" (my drink, very common drink) she says "yes"
VRx: good, cause if you hadn't I would have had to stop talking to you for being that un-cultured [sic]
She laughs, and convo triggers additional banter and kino and meaningless qualifications she shouldn't even have to qualify herself over but does and loves anyway
[Don't just take opportunities boys, make them yourself if you can]
Bar-back comes by, accidentally knocks my beer out of my hand while I'm gesticulating a point, it shatters on the floor and splatters all over my shirt. Had a good attitude about it, he immediately gets me a new one without me asking. Good frame and dgaf
I'm not kino'ing too hard, just grazes to the back when I make points etc, pulling her in to talk to her ear because it's loud in there. Massive excuses galore to touch shoulders/pull her in etc.
She keeps looking at my lips but I'm not gonna break the tension by kissing her
Next, I use and abuse the line dances to my full advantage (I fucking hate them and don't do them and she knows it) to take her into an isolated but open area to show her some partner moves during line dances
If you teach moves slooooowly with game in mind you can completely get away with kino'ing their erogenous zones (lower back, hips , stomach, neck, hands) while talking inches from their face even on married and taken women with lingering hands and they don't even blame you for it and come back for more. Shit's basically a free pass for escalating and no one else who's even standing next to you can tell you're gaming nor gives a shit, it's criminal
-VRx
She keeps fucking up this one move so I steal a quick kiss when she finally gets it right so that she knows I'm serious tonight (after I fucked up last year)
Vibe continues till a pretty female friend asks me to dance pretty forcefully (cause she can't find any other opening). S says she's not offended and I tell her she can find someone else for the next couple songs and that I "don't care" if she does.
S instead literally goes and buys me another beer while I'm literally with another woman. GG
I finish with friend, meet S for my free beer, she's kino'ing the shit out of me and putting herself so close to me physically that it'd have been criminally retarded not to pull her that second. I shoot a line, it wasn't the best, but fuck it I just threw something out
[I'm not proud of my pull-line I just couldn't think, the iron was too hot and I couldn't think of something else fast enough to risk it cooling down]
VRx: wanna hang out after this?
Her: (looks down and up and smiles). "Sure"
VRx: I'm not far, like 3 exits down from here, you want to finish up a couple more dances or head out now?
Her: I'm good either way
VRx: let's dance off the beer and head out.
Finished a couple songs, make sure I do some sexy dips because fuck it, why not, and bounce.
Brief making out as she drops me off at my car. follows me home in her car.
Offer her sweatpants and a t-shirt right away back at my place to get her undressed faster
I play her a little bit of guitar, she sings a song (Broken by Seether) while I play it on acoustic. Finish that song, escalate and fuck
Easy, clean lay. No LMR or ASD whatsoever. Not one shit test all night. Spent the night, fucked her again in the morning, she won't stop trying to be close to me while laying in bed, made her coffee and send her on her way with the "text me when you make it home safe" line. She texts me back saying she had a great time.
Completely clean kill, no bullshit
Missed out on this lay in July 2022, Defeat is often nothing more than a mindset
Unless you're retarded though, then defeat is usually just defeat. Don't be retarded.
TL;DR:
Dick goes inside a va-jay-jay
Diabs 1y ago
Nice one bro sounds like she was nice and interested and met you halfway all night I like those kinda nights glad you're enjoying it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Thanks man, from my perspective she met me the full way all night. She was gaming me harder than I was gaming her honestly. It was remarkable
(I did a lot of the heavy lifting last July, so that was likely why)
But yeah man. I clutched victory from the jaws of defeat, this is one of my proudest lays even if she was already interested
SSeuSS 1y ago
yeah lol
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I'm good at it, I draw it out. I'll do half of the move and the slowly lower them back up to talk to them and explain more of the move while still holding erogenous zones.
I'll also graze them very fast on certain things or let my hands off so slow that my fingers stroke them on the way off. I'm still developing my technique with it because I have yet to get pushback from anyone on it, including bystanders
My only real question about it is whether they consciously know why they're coming back to me or not.
Like if a chick is touching me a certain way I know what I like about it. I'm honestly not sure if they have that same awareness of "I like how he touches me when he showed me that" or not
SSeuSS 1y ago
IMO they will rather speak behind your back. Especially old harpies - anyway that's what I expect when I grab early 20 girl and they sit there as there is usually not enough men + they are pain in the ass, acting up in regular dance routine - that usually shows when they are more exp, but instead of showing how's that done and gaining some bonus points, they forcefully try to lead and that never goes well with me. S
Sometimes harpies are even bangable. But attitude is appalling, as one would expect.
I used to dance tiiime ago in general [now I do it on classes] and I was slowing down on purpose - that move, on top of what you say, expresses that you are in control - not DJ, not music. Everyone will do same stuff and tempo, except...
I'd say stress level might blur perception at given moment, but at the end they know. By coming back they might expect 'the move' whether they will reciprocate or not.
Also because you're in control they have plausible deniability in case someone notices. How far you can go should be pre-programmed in her ASD-EPROM.
Happy to xchange more notes.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Please do, I don't talk to enough people in this community that have experience in the scene
Now, I would agree with you, except for that I'm only showing the moves. I'm not deviating from the move at all. There is no discernable way any third person could see the game imo.
Now if I were just touching them and shit in a gamey way I'd agree with you but none of my kino is outside the bounds of where I would be touching them during a legitimate move.
Just so happens to be that a lot of legitimate moves touch erogenous zones and I go out of my way to teach longer than I need to with more emphasis than I need to, for it to become game.
Also, people watching always come up to me and ask me to show them or give positive comments, which is why I don't think anyone but complete prudes would be talking behind my back
If they are, I don't know where they are because that hasn't been my experience. I have a friend that is fully aware that I game when I teach moves and he can't even tell what I'm doing when he watches until after I explain it.
Same as above, I just exploit time windows of legitimate moves to linger on areas that are more sensitive on their bodies.
Sometimes guys with girlfriends ask me to show them a move, and while I don't linger on their taken partner, don't seem bothered. They'll even come back to me to. Hence I'm not thinking I'm setting off any alarm bells to bystanders
I mean they have to know. I have a few married friends and even they come back to me all the time for me showing them moves. Also the amount of girls that flirt with me when I show them something...
They have to know. It's gotta be plausible deniability to get felt for 5 minutes to them guilt-free
SSeuSS 1y ago
IMO That's because they're either alpha and don't give a shit or naive, no 6th sense, just chumps. You might never do any taken woman, but if guys show no concern AND she shows eagerness toward you rather then him, then it's rather latter. After all the first kino base - touch - is done. I use 'rather' as there might be rare nuances, I will never know about.
It is not about you doing something detectable, just mindset of person watching you. Jealousy, JW, age unhappiness and what not are usual triggers.
Someone like me - if I would see things then I would learn or wouldn't give a shit or smirk. But unhappy people CAN be exactly as bitter as we can read on internet.
Within 1st month - amongst 50 women I danced with & above say 35yo only 2 show signs of being feminine rest is fucked [1 is very old and 1 wants to learn]. 25 - 35 odds 50%, Below 25 pretty malleable.
I have changed 1 venue to where I can't learn as much, but over 35yo are rarity and I don't look back.
:) We all need some living animal touch. Women might even think it is all just dance and yeah guilt free touch. But if extras happen, then there is still a feral hamster.
You dance a while, have you ever had a girl you trained, coming kinda after you after break up?
Lately I have had my first dance-floor obvious b-cluster bitch. I was having great time with few grls and pulled one guy in some silly social game for kicks. She approached me and I sense right away there is discrepancy in dance, she talk some bs to me, I process and tell her that we are incompatible and move away. To which she grabs 2 guys consecutively and do big show in front of me.
You are good at what you do and enjoy benefits. Dancing offers social group, easier escalation. cardio, skill, not so overwhelming music, usually sober-ish people, let's drink to it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Usually just chumps. I went there tonight for a bit and there is this one such couple and his girl overtly squeezed my arm when I walked by. I'm starting to realize something is going on there.
Been around them many times cause that couple sits at our table each night. Starting to feel increasingly less friendly by the night the way she's interacting with me. Oops [insert cringe emoji]
Yup, I'm pretty sure a few men irrationally hate me because of it. One girl saw me teaching another chick tonight and I think they both like me. The chick that saw me teaching a dip came up behind me and hugged me from behind my neck and tried to make herself sound like she owned me.
The other girl walked away until I whispered in her ear "id rather dance with you"
Bitch almost cost me my preference. Confirmed, they do know when triggered
Nice
True, that (:
Yup, my exes still hunt me down there and ask me to dance.
Lol I love when they think theyve owned me and then two seconds later I have a new chick after walking away from their show
Or better yet, I'm watching their pathetic revenge show and another girl grabs my arm and yanks me away during it lmaoooo
This experience has literally changed my life. It has done more for me on the autism spectrum than anything else I can imagine
I owe this so much to my development on the spectrum. It's insane I am forever grateful
Id probably no joke be dead today if I hadn't found it two years ago. I was close to finishing plans to end everything and then the scene gave me hope. It ended a7 year dry spell that was about to take my will to live
RedPirate751 1y ago
Boom. Good shit.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Thanks man, appreciate the succinct congrats