Every so often on the AskTRP forum, I see a question like "should I bang this ugly chick?" So I've typed up a guide to help men make tasteful decisions in those situations. Even though women are the gatekeepers of sex, men still should be selective with potential mates...hence why I've titled this post "Sexual Selectiveness."
New TRP Users
If a man recently discovered TRP, and has begun applying basic principles of game, then I believe he should have sex with as many mates as possible (within reason, of course). It's important for beta/blue-pilled men to gain experience with women. Sometimes that leads to hooking up with hot women. But that also includes fucking fat chicks, single moms, etc. All of these experiences will allow the man to learn more about female nature as well as his own preferences, which he can then utilize further down the road.
Assess Your SMV
More-advanced TRP followers might find themselves in a situation where they could have sex with a woman who they perceive as lower value. These are typically the men who ask the question on the forum. My advice for those men is to assess their own SMV. Oftentimes they view themselves as a 7 or 8, when in reality they are a 5. So they meet another 5, then get confused while responding to the IOIs.
The reality is that everybody over-estimates their SMV. Men and women alike. By definition, the vast majority of people are average, aka a 5 out of 10. Even if a man looks like a 7, his financial situation (which is important to women) might be a 3, and his SMV is balanced to a 5. Similarly, a woman might have a sexy body, but her personality is shit, which turns off men.
But I digress. As a general rule of thumb, if a man thinks he's a 7, but only attracts 5 and below, then that's a good indicator that he over-estimates his SMV. This leads to disappointment and frustration. Therefore, in the aforementioned situations, I advise men to re-assess their SMV to determine if they're actually higher value than the woman. From there, they can make a decision based off the context. Which segues into my next point...
Context
Each sexual relationship exhibits slightly different dynamics. No matter what, the man must understand how to manage his bitches (read the sidebar post about this). The context of the relationship with a woman is important to consider.
The usual suggestions of TRP apply. Don't shit where you eat. Avoid women with STDs. And for Rollo's sake, keep it legal.
It gets a little more complicated beyond that. How did the two people meet? Is the man just hanging out at the club and wants an easy lay? Going through a dry spell perhaps? Or does he want something more long term and stable? Does the woman seem crazy? How will fucking her improve the man's life, if even for a brief time? And so on. Each situation is unique and personal.
Conclusion
With all of that said, the question still remains. "Should I bang an ugly chick?" My simple answer.
If you're new to TRP, yes.
If your more advanced, re-assess your SMV first. You'll probably realize that you and the woman have similar SMVs. So...green light.
If you're truly a high-value man, consider the context of the relationship. If the juice isn't worth the squeeze, then no. Otherwise, go for it.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 11mo ago
(should I bang an ugly chick)?
TRP response would be, if that's what you want to do, then do it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 12mo ago
Good shit
A big problem a lot of guys have is overestimating their SMV or reconning how hot their hottest lay was and comparing every other prospect to what they think they can get or not considering some of the hottest women they've had were right guy right time right place and not actually because their SMV had the value necessary to secure them on any other typical night
A lot of guys are downplaying lays that pass the boner test but not the ego test and a lot of the times it's self inflicted. They don't realize what their actual pool of options actually are and instead chase hot women with scarcity when their biggest lineup of options they could have abundance with are actually right under their nose and sliding out of the palm of their hands
Again, good shit
OPPTRP 11mo ago
what happens if you attract an array say some 5s 6s 7s 8s?
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pofkaf 11mo ago
Then you're probably around a 6 or 7. It's normal to have some high-value outliers.
OPPTRP 11mo ago
Yeah I’d say I’m a 7 trying to get to 8 plus
whytehorse2021 11mo ago
Male SMV is relative and determined by women. This is what guys need to learn. In the US I'm a 5, in Asia I'm an 8(maybe 9 now with my teeth fixed). Then you really need to ask yourself: Do I want an 8 or a 5? And then you go get your passport and live happily ever after.