Decisiveness,

The one thing most modern men and boys lack. Some of us have seen the meme RPU my kawk is in her. What do I do next? Or ever the "should I posts". The truth is, we don't know and we don't care. No one is going to invest into a spy cam, mic and ear bug to tell you what to say. The tools you're given are to be used as you see for your job is to understand the context and application of each.

Indecision is a curse. It's toxic. It's unattractive and it's codependent. It shows a weak frame and insecurity.

My main girl and my daughter will tell me they are hungry during the day. I'll ask. what are you craving? "I dunno" is the answer. Do you want to go out? "I dunno" I'll try to narrow it down: Pizza, BBQ or Chinese? "Whatever"

You see where I'm going with this: absolutely nowhere...

The decisive man gets what he wants. This is true in business, friendships, recreation and of course sex and dating. Will you always get everything you want exactly the way you want it? No. You will however get very positive results the vast majority of the time. Women get the tingles for men that overtly go after what they want.

Most people lack direction and even further, confidence. The decisive man has the advantage and can take the role of leadership.

As a self proclaimed and sexually open man, I personally love sex parties. The interesting thing is getting a group together that all want the same thing. They attended for sex. Now the funny thing to see is a bunch of people that are like deer in headlights. They are afraid to start. They are afraid to make decisions. The only decision made was to show up. Past that, the decision making stops. When I come in, I know what I want. I break the ice and I take charge. I make the decisions so no one else can be seen as greedy. The women can practice subconscious ASD at the event.

I am loving this dynamic! I'm directing! "Come over here" "Look at this" "I want to see you___" "You take the front and you take behind"

This gentleman is power. And the majority of the party submits and gives me the responsibility. I'm the fun guy and I get what I want, for as long as I want.

Start small. Decide what you want to wear for the day the night before. Decide the night before what you want for lunch. Decide to smile at pretty girls and just simply say hello.

Don't ask, inform. This is important! Give someone an chance to say no. This is what you are doing regardless. The more you make decisions without asking for someone else's opinion. The stronger you will get. You'll start noticing more respect. You'll notice things get easier. People will volunteer help. You'll notice that people are drawn to you magnetically.

People want to be around someone that can lead them. We all have really no idea what we are doing. The decisive men will give the lost direction. Even if it's as small as what is happening this evening, it's a powerful statement.

Start practicing this today. Make your life easier.