Greeting fellow Don Juan's and players. I wanted to talk about a simple mistake that I keep on making. So it's time for a post and to learn from my mistakes.

Once you start spinning multiple plates, your time and resources get limited.

Now if you're new, you might get scared. You keep your women apart and keep who you're seeing a secret.

I understand this. Most women can't handle the truth. They find out about other women and throw shit fits. The stop complying. They threaten. Most men don't DARE and can't handle their girl's emotional outbursts.

The more calibrated guy openly admits to his plate spinning. He doesn't give a shit if she likes it. He knows she can be replaced and he handles her outbursts and temper tantrum with style and mastery. This is attractive and shows preselection, dread and abundance.

So that's all you need right? Wrong!

Time will pass. Some plates will break some will stick around and be promoted. Some new girls will appear. You'll figure out that some are bi. Hooray! The time will come when you want Katrina, Tina and Sabrina to come together for a foursome to share your D.

So they meet and get to know each other a bit. Keep it to just a bit. I'm sure you've heard that women would rather share an Alpha than saddled with a failthful Beta. This is true. However, women are competitive. They will want you to themselves and to eliminate the competition. They share if they have to.

You have proverbial community well. It's filled with the elixir of submission, compliance and civility.

These girls can be your friends and you can talk about other women, once they accept the fact that you are changing. These aren't your guy friends. Don't treat them as such.

Here's the list of do nots:

Do not complain or tell a woman you're dating about an argument or fight you had with another plate or girlfriend.

Do not tell the women you're with flaws or quirks of the other women you're with.

Do not let a woman know how a plate gets under your skin.

Do not tell other women about surprises that you're planning for plates.

Do not tolerate your plates bad mouthing your other girls.

This poisons the well, the woman receiving the information will use that information against you and the other woman. She will put herself on a pedestal and loathe the other woman for "treating you poorly" or "not listening to you". Congrats on this guys. You will now hear almost daily reasons why you should ditch this girl or girls. She (of course) is the best option for you.

Don't give women ammunition to use against you. They will.

Here's the Do list:

Do tell her about a fun date you had.

Do tell her the things another plate has done for you that make you feel good or valued.

Do praise your other women in front of your date.

Do stay positive about all of your women.

This causes them to compete with another woman's good side. If a girl is a good cook her competition will try to do it better. If a girl is submissive, her competition might get more subservient. If one girl gives killer head.... Well guess what..

The point in all this is if you can't say anything nice about your harem then STFU. The other women don't need and shouldn't be handed that information.