The perfect girl, who treats you perfectly. She's super hot and willing to be the perfect wife. A notch count of -4.

You work out for that perfect physique. So you can make a big salary to buy the perfect mansion. When you read the sidebar you'll know the things to do and execute the perfect game.

Only here's the problem: perfect doesn't exist. You are human.

Second thing is, as a man, you don't have to save your virtue, you're not a snowflake virgin. If you're holding out for you perfect someone, you are not learning, you're not trying and you're missing obtaining valuable first hand lessons.

If you're waiting for perfect, you're waiting on the impossible. If you strive for perfect before you start, you've already failed.

The best thing you can do to grow is take action and make mistakes. Settle for imperfect women, lots of them. You don't have to keep them, but learn from them and enjoy your time with them. Do you want to spend your life making excuses and jerking off or even worse, becoming a retainer?

Don't wait for perfect.