ive been reading a lot of articles on here and a lot of it is confusing but a lot of it makes sense too. after everything i was taught and told about being a 'lady' i'm finding that none of my peers or any women i know live up to these ideals and act just like men in most ways.
So what does the red pill mean to women? Should women live by the same ideals of freedom, self-expression, and self-fulfillment as men? What can women learn from the red pill, generally? Thanks for any thoughts.
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I'd just like to say that I, and probably many other here, really appreciate you being here and will always enjoy women understanding the truth.
iggybdawg 12y ago
I think you should learn to recognize elements of game that are dangerous to your relationships. For example, you meet a good boyfriend, fall in love, get married, have kids, but then years of your shit tests turn your awesome alpha male into a whiny beta male. Without redpill knowledge, you wouldn't know that you are half responsible for his unattractiveness.
Even before that, you should see now that using "Let's Just Be Friends" as a rejection is meaner than a clear "no". If you really intend to be a friend to such a guy, help him find a girlfriend. Give actionable feedback on why he failed with you. Otherwise, you are keeping him in stasis as your beta orbitor, leading him on without intending to, which is cruel.
Also, isn't hypergamy just an example of "the grass is always greener"?
In addition, if you don't like negs, recognize that men use them because they work. Don't want guys to neg you? don't give in to them.
To me redpill knowledge is simply observing sexual selection behavior as it is, not as it should be.
So in short, both females and males can use the knowledge to be more in control of obtaining their desired outcome.
DawnHyman 11y ago
Hypergamy might be more than "grass is always greener." Check out Sperm Wars. Natural selection happens on the microscopic level. Sperm wage battle against the sperm of other males that recently nailed a woman. The woman benefits because the sperm that win the battle will give the woman a son that has more effective sperm.
Ideally, our women do not have the sperm of more than one person inside them. If women choose to sleep with multiple men within a week or so, she can stage an invisible fitness battle in between her legs. (I think this explains why women might want to get gang banged even if they can only get pregnant once at a time.
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iggybdawg 12y ago
My wife is more committed to the relationship than me. However, what brought me to start studying game is that instead of going for higher status males when I failed shit tests, or didn't mate guard in public, or when I begged for sex, she simply became asexual. I had an exasperating 5 or so years of "why won't you fuck me?" "I don't know!" Perhaps she would have left me when the kids got older.
Now I'm on the bumpy road of killing my inner beta. If just a few months ago, you had told me I would be telling my wife she's wrong and why and banging her in the same day, I would have called you crazy, it's totally confusing to my natural nice guy tendencies. But now I can see that I need to keep her honest by refusing to let her be unreasonable, so that she can respect me enough to do me.
uberafc 12y ago
Its terribly sad that the games never seem to end.
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PatrickLatham 12y ago
"The constant shit tests are basically because their hypergamous nature makes them not only seek out higher status males, but constantly re-evaluate current males to ensure they're up for the task."
You just blew my mind thanks man
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Good question.