This is a fantastic metaphor. Looked at this way, even shit tests are her way of making sure you know where you are going and can keep the motorbike under control. Failing a shit test would be nerve wracking for her, she'll immediately look for a more fun rider.

Fucking beautiful metaphor. I am a lifelong bike rider...how did this not occur to me? Thanks OP. I fucking love this.

There's also the case where she simply will jump rides if she finds some cooler biker dude cruzing along. When I started to act weird and out of my own comfort zone it was when my girl was already trying to branch swing. She didn't outright say it and I only discovered years later when I put two and two together.

It's actually fairly natural (for most men) to pursue their goals and lead their girl on. When a relationship is healthy and the girls affections are plenty full- nothing distracts. But men build a bond and in today's world that's simply a death sentence.

I can pin point the exact week where I suspect my SO to have met her new branch. Due to some luck and knowledge about how she met him I can tell. What was interesting was that moment also correlated with her change in behavior and consequently mine. I didn't behave beta/feminine or otherwise unattractively whilst the relationship harmony was intact. Only when it was shattered did I act clueless. Now I know how to spot it and I act accordingly- next.

Women shift in behavior, interests and composure when they enter another mans frame and your gut feeling takes notice of this. If you're inexperienced and no one taught you better- this could confuse any guy.

That's why it's more important to teach young men to practice independence and abundance. It's simply far easier for a woman to stray in today's tempting world.

Overly simplified bull.

I thought we moved past the "90s sitcom/ Tim Taylor" explanation of male/ female dynamics.

1. Women also want sex.

2. Men certainly want more than sex. At bare minimum I can say fidelity, usually. But many men, especially if sex with attractive women is easily attained, want more than sex. In fact they become bored with sex ... or women who only offer sex ... after the first encounter.

Men also want the confidence boost and validation (and some an emotional connection). I've had women use me as a walking sex toy, and weren't really interested in me on a personal level, and the lack of validation from sex was ... new ... and ... revealed that I (like most men) are not that simple in motivation.

Thats a good piece of advice brodi.

Good metaphor. Solid post. Even a veteran like me got a new perspective on this subject. Thank you for sharing.

Simple, precise, and totally fucking 100% true. Good job man.

Selling a motorcycle is like breaking up, you know you want to try the other bikes, but still got used to to your current one.

I went and tested a bunch of bikes, it felt like cheating on my current one haha.

I understand now, thanks. It's really hard to find translation to man language.

Thanks for the content. Btw, 'cajones' are drawers, you probably wanted to say 'cojones'.

Women want the seed of the strongest man, while men want to impregnate the hottest woman. Everything else is rationalization. Providers dont play any value at the biological level.

This is a great way to visualize sexual dynamics.

A lot of what I see on here and at AskTRP goes against this: guys trying to gain validation from women instead of themselves.

Of course, it's an enormous and understated paradigm shift coming from being an incel to reach that viewpoint, but as such a visually oriented society, having simple visualizations like this could potentially speed up the swallowing and digestion process for a lot of us.

And people ask my why the first thing I take off my bikes are the passenger pegs.. don't need nor want any type of distraction on my rides thank you.

Solid post bro.

Beautifully illustrated OP. It think this post puts it as clear as can be in layman's terms for anybody struggling to understand what relationships should be like.

This should be on the sidebar.

I'd add being ok when she decides to hop off since you know there will always be another, and not carrying her baggage (kids, disorders, high n-count) because you won't stay balanced.

Great metaphor.

this makes so much sense. so how do you translate this to everyday interactions? every time i make a plan, shes finds some other shit that happens that day or needs to be done soon, while not solving any of her shit first.

What analogy would you give about social media?

Unfortunately women work more than ever and can provide for their own safety and security. They are used to making their own decisions however flawed they may be. Your metaphor is a wishful thinking and it's playing off of male bravado of how things should be, not how the reality is. The red pill has to be GROUNDED to reality first, not entertaining like a movie.