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I find I rationalise not approaching. So, I made an approach algorithm. If the conditions are met, I 'should' approach. This way I can figure out if I am improving my approach game or not objectively, quantitatively.

Whatdya reckon:

Conditions for approach:

Feminine

Plus

8+ Physically attractive (make a scale) either or both of w/wo/ stylish clothes, makeup, hair style

Plus

Speaks English

Plus

Hygienic appearance without disqualifying brhavioura

Plus

Doesn't appear or behave sas, negative, neurotic, or angry

Plus

I'm not busy with another timely task

Plus

Logistics availability for follow up contact, pulling or physical esclatoon

Plus

Looks between 16 to 27

Stylish attire or unusual behavior

Disengage if:

Unengaging or no longer meets initiate approach criteria

10- Catherine zeta jones 9 - mom 8 - Cindy from jimmy neutron 7 - this charity loving chick from my home town 6 - chick I’m dating 5 - Jessica rabbit 4 - petite asian chick from my city 3 - the cool chick who’s a friend of a friend 2 - this isn't gonna work with people who's personalities I know...need to control for everything but physical to be objective so look up some culture free scales 1 - Melanie Martinez

Clearly just picked first fems that came to my head. Any suggestions for a more objective scale?

Another disqualify is health signals specifically: Size/weight, smoking, IV drug use, pimples. Also taller than me or greater than 30cm shorter

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sir_wankalot_here 8y ago

Sounds like a post by one of those wierd creepy guys women detest. Approach them all.

HappyScribe 8y ago

Would I fuck her? Approach.

Luis_McLovin 8y ago

This is all you need to answer to yourself.

This over-thinking stuff is silly.

HandsomeCub 8y ago

I think that's what he's trying to elaborate. Simply recognize and react, no nerves

fruguy 8y ago

Actually, I think he's elaborated on that.

corsega 8y ago

You approach every girl you would fuck? How do you have time for anything else? /s

The whole point of this thread is efficiently deciding who to approach and who not to.

HappyScribe 8y ago

Yes, if it's convenient, I'll start a conversation with any woman I find attractive and will naturally flirt with them. I've had this rule since I started daygame.

I'll add that I also talk to anyone - I'm a sociable guy. This whole having an algorithm to approached is such bullshit. Most guys first need to become social, they need to learn how to chill and vibe with strangers.

Also, more to the point, how are you going to be able to screen women, know the signs of total nutcases, if you don't approach them?

RedPillAccount69 8y ago

you left out condition 1:

Am I a fucking pussy?

BloodRedAlert 8y ago

Why is Cindy from Jimmy Neutron in there

Rooster1111 8y ago

This "algorithm" will not help you overcome approach anxiety. It just fuels more excuses to "disengage" as you call it. Like others here have said, you overcome approach anxiety by approaching everybody, attractive, unattractive, men and women.

ripross 8y ago

For me, there are 2 conditions I consider because I wouldn't think about it at all if I was busy with something else: 1. They are attractive. 2. They show interest as well be it eye contact or whatever

cs_throwawayyy 8y ago

Bro this is an inefficient algorithm. Before your brain runs the conditional statement, the girls night be gone or you walked past her on the street. I have a simple algorithm, extremely efficient.

If (Girl.isHot()) {Approach();} Else {Continue;}

[deleted] 8y ago

This is a troll post. No way it can be serious. If it is then the dude is autistic.

VikingOverlorde 8y ago

This is a guide to talking to women for nerds.

Way_Of_Man 8y ago

That's pretty much what 90% of PUA was/is.

HandsomeCub 8y ago

It is a long list, but the concept is good. Especially the idea that you are not waiting for your nerve, but responding to a boring routine checklist. Something that i would add is ways to recover emotionally from criticism... excuses or something... still trying to figure this part out.