Good day,

I'd like to share some of experiences that I've had and I've been having a hard time finding a particular subreddit that fits the parameters of my particular issues, as they seem to border on many different categories.

TheRedPill seems to be the closest, although I apparently don't see eye to eye with most of the people who post here. That's fine, and I think that's an important part of coming to a more refined understanding of who I am and what's going on around me. I'm hoping for some insightful discourse from this.

To give you a bit of a background on the story, my wife and I have been together since 2009 (VERY happy relationship by the way, it seems I've won the lottery by any state of measure). We allowed her brother to move in with us for a while early on, in about 2010. He was shortly asked to leave because of his abusive nature towards women (I wasn't having that in my house). We have a roommate who has been living with us since 2012, and the guy is nothing short of awesome.

In 2015, my wife's brother apologized and admitted he was wrong, and it appeared that he was making an honest attempt to turn some corners and straighten himself out. He enrolled in school, and we agreed to move him back in at a low rent rate to help out. Hell, he even inspired me to go to school, and not to toot my own horn I'm killing it right now and I got the practicum placement I was gunning for.

Anyway, things were going pretty good for a while, but there were elements in our lives, these two particular women that I never fully trusted. You know when you meet someone and your internal bullshit detector is going "beep beep beep"? These two live together, and one is super dominant over the other.

One of them (the subservient one), whenever we were having a party was always promiscuous with all the men. She was dating a very good man, so when she was doing this it irritated the hell out of me. And I hated it when she came anywhere near me. Finally one day I told her to back off, and she went on told on me to the other one, who we will name Cow.

So Cow goes and talks to my wife about the fact that I did this. I didn't find out until the morning until my wife was super stoked about the bizarre conversation she had with them, but they told her something to the effect that I'm a really good guy and some other nonsensical bullshit. The point is that I was just standing up for the integrity of my relationship. I don't need to engage with flirtatious behavior with anyone to justify my existence, and I respect my wife a lot more than that.

That being dealt with, the issue was far from settled. Cow was dating a friend of mine, and mistreating him severely, and at the point where I told the other woman to back off was around the time she decided to break it off with him. She then started dating my awesome roommate, who I tried to warn. I had to respect his decision though. Unfortunately he was treated like absolute shit by her as well, and he was in rough shape when she was done with him. Then guess what? She dated my brother in law, who was dishonest with my awesome roommate.

I told him that I did not want her in my house, and he hid her in his room for an entire weekend. I found out on the Sunday (It's a big house, but still how the hell?).

I was having an issue with her because of what happened with my awesome roommate, and she knew it, and I demanded to talk about it. She refused and left, and later on Facebook she sent me a message saying "If I'm at your place let's just ignore each other, ok?"

So I told her to stay the fuck out of my house and never darken my door again.

Obviously things were tense at the old household at this point.

At that point I kicked the brother's ass out and he tried to challenge it with the tenancy branch, which my wife and I annihilated his ass in the court, so that settled that. I think Cow put him up to trying to fight it.

Seriously, it's my fucking house and the government can stay out of my living room.

Long story short, she broke up with him a week later, citing that he did not have enough money. She was trying to get at me this entire time, because she knew I was on to her shenanigans to begin with and wasn't giving into her shit. I've had friends come to me and tell me that she's asked them why I didn't like her. It's funny that she'd ask those things, because I never did anything to indicate as such... But my bullshit detector has been on for quite some time and maybe I telegraphed it to her unintentionally.

There's a lot more to this that I could touch down upon but I don't want this to get too long.

The crux of the matter is that sexual manipulation was used for psychological warfare against an entire group of people, and I'm wondering if anyone else has had any similar experiences or insights to this sort of situation.

Thanks!