Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Typo-MAGAshiv
Posted 3y ago in The Big Question - Permalink - Locked - 5.5K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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JJohn1 3y ago
There is no cliché worse than the heels myth. I mean how often do you see your girl in heels fellas? Once a year, maybe twice? Understandably a huge deal breaker I get it.
pfeilmacher 3y ago
If you're sleeping with men on the first date, you are no longer the gatekeeper of sex; you're just a hoe hanging out at the open gates.
YourOwnDisaster 3y ago
What does $5 get me tho?
NewReligionOfSociology Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
LMAO
I commented in there while it was new, basically said "the good men are right in front of you" and just pointed out the usual dynamic that if you're going for the most attractive men, you'll get used
I just went back in there (it's been locked but I can still see it in my comment history) and tried to give some random dude a silver award, but I've been banned! screenshot: https://imgur.com/a/6FkcPWG
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Once again, if you're visiting here from my crosspost to that bastion of misandrist censorship known as "reddit" (ptui!), take some time to explore and create an account.
Learning a new platform can seem daunting, but both sides of this site (trp.red and forums.red) are really easy to use.
oh yeah, and CENSORSHIP-FREE!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago
Note how she can't actually deny what he said so she keeps trying to rephrase it so that she doesn't look like a shallow idiot.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
It's great to see you in the Promised Land. Let's get you properly flaired.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I liked my Biddy Busting Big Brain flair
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Why'd you change your username?
Message me on reddit from your account confirming that this is you, and I'll give you the Junior Hamster Analyst flair (at work so it might take a few hours). We can't customize flairs on here yet, but @redPillSchool is working on it.
redpillschool Everybody tag him 3y ago
Mods can customize flairs for users. Just not the users themselves yet.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago
This is good news. Thank you.
Edit: Editing to ask - There is no option to custom edit the flair itself, is there? My understanding is that you can create a custom flair for every user based on necessity, but there is no option to edit an already allocated flair (for example, Endorsed to something else), right? You have to create a flair specifically for what you want to allocate ("Something" with Endorsed flair qualities).
The problem with this is that managing the flairs might become a bit too complicated. Is there a way to edit pre-set flairs to show specific text? If not, could we have an option to create a set of template flairs and then have a separate place to custom-edit based on these templates?
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3y ago
If you don't mind sleeping with a man on the first date, you are going to have no mechanism for determining if a man is truly "into you" or if he just wants a one night stand. If your timeframe for the how quick you sleep with someone is the same for a long term relationship as it is for a one night stand, what incentive is a man going to have to even engage in a long term relationship? A man who wants a long term relationship is less likely to want a woman he knows is easy, so she is setting herself up for failure by choosing to act like she is in a hookup instead of a relationship. Not that she can really turn it around and proclaim she is "high value" by choosing to delay sex when she would be doing nothing more than setting an arbitrary window of time to wait for sex. Being worth the wait means that there must be an incentive to wait, and extending this period to the type of man you ask the most from is just showing that you are just trying to game the system rather than be a good woman.
That guy is spot on about the initial filter being her downfall. She selects for what makes her tingle first and then hopes it will guide her to a man who is also good. But if she neglects to look for good character, she is mostly going to get the type of guy who will say and do as much as he needs to in order to get a quick lay and vanish. And based on her "preferences", the tall and attractive type of guy she is filtering for is going to have more options. Yes, the Apex fallacy at work, where she wonders why every guy she is interested in only wants hookups and sleeping around. Well, if she actually looked beyond physical features she might find a guy who wants more than that.
Also, her "it goes both ways" for looks may seem reasonable, but just remember how men rank women's attractiveness versus how women rank men's attractiveness. Men have a far broader range of whom they find attractive than women, so when a man selects for attractiveness he provides far more chances than what women will. So it really is not the same thing.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I don't think the problem is her willingness to have sex. Her problem is men's willingness to have sex AGAIN. Men don't ghost fit, feminine, friendly, submissive and cooperative women. They fall all over themselves for them. Even Chad will keep banging a good woman until she wants commitment.
My wife isn't anything close to a model. She's a plain Jane. She was terrible in bed when we met. I was planning to pump and dump her since my only experiences with women had been with modern women and that's just what you do with them because they're insufferable. Instead I married her. She's traditional. The complete opposite of modern women.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3y ago
If a woman has sex on the first date, what bargaining power does she have for keeping that man committed to her? Is she hoping that her vagina is magical and will make the man want to stay with him? Yeah, a man may come around again for more sex, but there is nothing else keeping him around. My father-in-law says it well, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" (not something that has not been said before but even he as a very traditional man understands the dynamics).
Maybe some men are still fine committing to such a woman, but this strategy is still bad because it filters many men who want commitment and filters for the men who are willing to lie to hit it and quit it. That additional category is not all that common, and frankly those men also have low time preferences, which means that neither the man or the woman is filtering for good long term qualities.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago
Well said.
If you want a "high value" partner, you need to be "high value" yourself and you need to have "high value" qualities that will make him/her stay with you instead of exercising his/her options. She doesn't. And she does not want to. She just wants it to "happen".
While her initial filter is certainly a big limitation, what is truly keeping her in the fuckzone is the fact that she has nothing going for her to be taken seriously. She is available and willing (first date sex), so she can enjoy the ride until the ride ends or she ends it. But, this will continue until she develops, improves and sets realistic expectations.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Fortunately for her, she's young enough that she might be able to turn all this around.
That's unfortunate for the man, though, as she'll likely lie about her past.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago
Can she turn it around? Yes. Will she do the necessary adjustments to make sure that she will? No.
As you mentioned, she will not do anything to actually improve. Instead, she will go the FDS route, lie about herself, get herself a greater beta in the process and will either try to portray him as a "catch" or that she is "happier" with him because she is in control and he lets her be in control.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3y ago
Even if she does turn it around, she is in a catch-22. Withholding sex now will mean that she is making any man wait longer than previous men before, but repeating the same strategy is also not winnable solution. There may be some men who would be willing to commit to a woman who came clean about her past and her desire to reform herself, but I that is also not guaranteed to get her what she wants.
Ultimately, the best move for women is to never be in this situation in the first place. That is why virginity is so heavily emphasized. Yes, patriarchy is 100 percent correct about this idea. Women who actually follow these rules will be happier in the long run.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago
Yes, some men will be ok with her being whore in the past, provided that she stays a whore now and in the future. But she does not want that. She has now "matured" and wants a "relationship with a good man".
The problem is not that she cannot get a man. She probably can. She just does not want the man who would be suitable for her. She wants better and she cannot attract (AB) or keep better (AF).
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 3y ago
Lol that this broad cant wear sneakers, ever.
Its great that she has her own career, versus the ones that live on child support and welfare. She has no kids yet. Not a total waste.
If only her standards weren't so unrealistic. I've never met a man who's height was respective to how good of a man he was. Maybe if she stops screwing strangers and running up miles on herself, she could actually try to make a connection with a guy?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
It's that old saying: A woman has to like a man to sleep with him. A man has to like a woman to sleep with her AGAIN. She can't make a connection with a guy because she's a modern woman. Unfriendly, masculine, unfit, uncooperative and dominant. As soon as a man detects that, he ghosts a woman unless he's a simp. She's getting ghosted so that tells me she's choosing alpha males and is a modern woman. Friendly women can get to know men easily and keep them around.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 3y ago
She's definitely a modern woman. She thinks having a degree is a prerequisite for marriage lol.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with a date or 2 to know if you like someone. Yeah sex is important but its way more enjoyable with someone you like.
RedPill115 3y ago
Right...look at what she says.
1. She has to date a man her height or taller.
2. She wears heels all the time.
Her reaction is an immediate dismissal of changing either one either one.
You gotta discern her personality here. If she was a guy she'd be like "I'm going to be flying in at 7pm you gotta pick me up at the airport?". You're like "That's awfully inconvenient man...I guess I could do it...I could pick you up at 7:15pm" they say "That's completely unacceptable, get your dumb ass there at 7 I don't give 2 craps that you have to work before that".
Like that's her personality - total dick. It's not just a matter of meeting some attractiveness criteria, it's simply that any guy that meets her goes "oh f**k no" the moment they run into her personality.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Imagine only dating supermodels and prostitutes because they meet your physical attractiveness requirements. Why do I keep getting ghosted? It's like they're shopping because they have so many options. Where are all the good women? Wahhhh
YourOwnDisaster 3y ago
Notice that she's looking into her future telescope and sees Rollo's Epiphany Phase right there on the horizon?
It's like magic. She's justifying her hoe actions and realizing that she doesn't have much "party time" left, so why not fuck everyone she meets on the first date if she can rationalize it as filtering for a husband.
Her next post to come: "Why did he future-fake me???"
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 3y ago
"I don't care if you're 6' tall, you just have to be close enough to 6' that most women can't tell the difference. And my obvious double standard is totally okay because false equivalency."
She's so close to waking up, yet obviously fighting tooth and nail to remain asleep.
RedPill115 3y ago
She's nowhere close to waking up. She chooses to wear heels to make her taller, she could just stop wearing them and still meet her height preference of her height or taller.
She knows none of this matter, men don't want to date her because of her uptight frigid controlling personality.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 3y ago
Fair point. I overstated things. I was simply surprised at her having the perceptiveness necessary to see the Wall looming ahead at 25.
Maybe I shouldn't be. I never attended college, so I've no idea how the post-university years might impact a young woman's understanding of the carousel party never ending.
orbilius 3y ago
Idiot: "I don't understand why I can't find a job!! Is there no one hiring!!"
Wise Person: "There are lots of job but they're not going to pay you $300k per year - you're just not worth that much."
Idiot: "Pay is very important. I wont apologize for having high pay standards!"
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago
Wise Person: Alright. What are you going to do to improve yourself to the level where you can earn that salary you think you deserve?
Idiot: Nothing. I already deserve it. I just need to find some employer who will give it to me.
Wise Person: Yeah, good luck with that.
RedPill115 3y ago
Wise Person: "Also the clothing you're wearing is ragged and full of holes. Have you tried going to an interview in new clothing?".
Idiot: "Why should I change? That's their problem."
She wears heels. To get a guy her height or taller she could just stop wearing heels. That she brings it up to dismiss it suggests the problem is mainly that no guy wants to date her personality.
At_least_a_M 3y ago
She better hit up the shelter, I heard they have a sale on cats right now.