This bitch has hit the epiphany phase, this is your queue that she's been pumped and dumped too many times and you need to ignore her because now she will be 1000 times as demanding and provide 1000 times less than she did when she was younger and prettier. No anal sex for you billy beta, you have to take me out and spend hundreds of £££ on me every night, michelin star restaurants and all that. Chad however got to fuck me in every hole raw after "buying" me a glass of tap water at a club.

The best part is that women are so fucking stupid they will literally advertise they are into beta bux mode, they will literally TELL you that and it's great because you know not to waste your time with a post wall roastie alpha widow.

Whenever a woman mentions wanting to be spoiled, it's time to exit. That type is bad news.

It is understandable that she wants to be no longer in the Casual Sex zone with guys. She has reached the epiphany phase of her life, realizing that she will miss out on her window of opportunity to ever get married and have a family if she continues doing what she is doing. However, just because she wants something does not mean she will get it. Especially if the type of man she wants to commit to her asks questions about her past and who she truly is.

She may think she has changed, and maybe that at least in part it is true. But her past still matters. Her past is a predictor of how she will act in the future. Is she going to understand what it means to be committed? Will she bail or cheat the moment she finds herself "trapped" or "needing space" when she is not used to being in an actual committed relationship? It is not so much that she needs prior experience in relationships to be good for a commitment. The problem is that she has negative experience in this field, where she has had only casual "relationships" with other men. This negative experience is indeed a detriment for her finding success in a future relationship.

Men who want to get married and have a family also do not want to commit to a woman who previously gave it away for little or for free. This type of man would rather have a woman who sees sex as more special than something done on such a casual basis. Not only that, but would she truly appreciate such a man? Maybe, maybe not. She has not prepared herself to be with such a man, as mentioned by the negative experience. I do not know of a way to rectify that issue. But I do know that women like this can serve as a warning to other women for what not to do. But whether or not other women will see this warning and understand it is another thing. At the very least, other women before have served as warnings, and still many more women follow suit with the same bad trajectory. We cannot know for sure how many have seen and realized the warnings and have avoided the pitfalls, but we can see that many women still follow the wrong path.

Not just give minimal effort, like guys who "hang out" do.

Wow. You don't say!

Thanks lady. I never knew that casual relationships of the "Netflix and Chill" sort were low effort hookup sorts of things.

On another note. Let me be serious here for a minute.

In less than 10 seconds I could almost smell her body count oozing out from her fucking pores - my guess is mid 50's. Her spoiled girl drawl, the hair fidgeting, the hair color, the hoop rings, the large pudgy nose that yells "I am insecure about my nose but cannot afford plastic surgery" - her whole fucking package and presentation is that of a straight up Good Time Party Girl^tm.

She will most likely get married at some point, once she learns how to say the right words, hide the most obvious signs, etc. But I would be a LOT of money that she will also:

A) Make her man miserable B) Be egregiously disloyal one way or the other C) Surround herself, either at work or socially, with a lot of "guy friends" D) Feel deeply depressed once the honeymoon phase is over E) Repeatedly put her own needs before those of her family, including her kids F) Initiate the divorce citing some form of toxic abuse.

I am not even shitting on this woman and have nothing negative to say about her. These are just my impressions.

Another way of putting it: She wants to be treated like a respectable whore. That sums up what modern romance is: Men needing to earn sex. Prostitution has become normalized and even more reputable than romance in the past of just a man and woman caring about each other or "hanging out."

If she wants something more intimate, she could, in theory, cook dinners for him or plan fun things and then ask him to also plan dates and engage in romantic gestures. The only way she can unilaterally demand he "put an effort in" is to use sex as a currency.

She's cute enough. She just has nothing to offer outside looks, which are hanging on by a coat of paint and some hair dye.

She plays the "cool girl" by accepting low effort dates. "Sure, come over for Netflix and sex, there, stranger. I dont demand effort and won't exude effort. I'm easy."

And she's chasing Chad. She could find a guy lower on her list to do everything she wants but she won't. She wants Chad to put in effort, not Billy.