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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3y ago
She says she has "traditional values," but has spent the decade climbing the corporate ladder instead of priotizing finding a marriageable man. Perhaps she could have done both, but my guess is that she has only half assed things at best with her relationship search.
The type of man she wants does not need someone like her. He also is very unlikely to want someone like her. But she does not think about this sort of thing. Once again, a woman assumes she knows what a man wants rather than investigating that. Perhaps not all men are not keen to bluntly tell women what they really want, but that just means you need to observe actions. Men have figured this out with women.
On the note of a man telling the blunt truth, if he knew he would not get attacked for being a "misogynist" or "hateful," women could get the honest answers. It also requires that answering the question will have any value, since it requires the potential for a the party who receives the answer to accept the answer and consider actions based on the information.
As for this woman, she would be better off finding a man more her complement rather than her mirror. A man who is willing to be the one who tends to the household and children. These men are less common, but they do exist. The problem is that most women do not want them, and they instead seek a man that wants his complement: a woman not like him. Besides, being 34 and being at square 1 is not going to help her case.
Pic889 2y ago
I am very very suspicious that a 34-year old woman can ever be "traditional" (aka "straight-laced"). Are you seriously telling me that, as a 34-year old woman living in today's society, you never had premarital sex? Because that's what "traditional" REALLY means.
Now, don't get me wrong, I don't like the idea of society forcing people to wait for marriage before sex (quite the contrary, I think sexual liberation was a liberation for women and men). My point is that, there is no such thing as a woman waking up one day and deciding she is "traditional". It's all a trick to "vet" men for provider status and try to frame themselves as a prize that the man has to work for. The same woman would probably bang a man within 30 minutes if she is reaaally into him.
So, here is the gist of it: If a woman feels the need to "vet" you and tries to present herself as some grand prize you have to work for, she is not into you. The fact she may be 34 does not change a thing. Also if a modern-day woman claims to be "traditional" or "straight-laced", she is lying.
Which brings the question? Should you drop it on the first date or the second if no progress happens? No, seriously.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
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Triniac 3y ago
Pretty much yes, men don't see marriage as an institution that has anything to offer them anymore and often the older we get we are either already married or are no longer interested in getting married. So if we think a woman is looking for marriage many of us are just not interested any longer. So yes in your mid 30's you will find the type of men you are looking for are a very small pool indeed. Sucks but it is what it is.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago
There's a joke that goes if a woman wants to be a general's wife, she should marry a 1st lieutenant. This is a classic example of the women wanting to meet men at the finish line. Yes, she's at her finish line but she's competing with all the other women who want the guy at the finish line when those guys probably picked up someone during the race.
I noticed in corporate America that there is a strong element of politics to succeed and this includes a preference for attractive men. Nearly all the CEO's I've ever seen were tall. So if those guys wanted a family, they probably played (or plowed) the field in college or afterwards and then settled down LONG before this woman shows up looking for him.
Her language is revealing: "traditional" usually doesn't mean she bakes pies, obeys a man, but rather she wants men who earn more than her to wine and dine her. "Straight laced" means she's frigid.
Finally, she works in a software company which, I can attest, is one of the worst, most political, nasty environments to be in. She's surrounded by toxic people meaning she's probably a bit that way herself.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3y ago
She's fat.
If she was slim and attractive, she would say so in her list of reasons why men are wrong to not date her.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3y ago
After learning TRP since 2017, it still astounds me that women cannot see the flaws of being a top-dog career woman into their 30s and beyond.
Feminism is really something fierce for woman like this to exist at all
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago
I was just discussing the socio-biological notion that fertile women are more valuable than fertile young men hence the rationalization for the modern hyper chivalry.
This begs the question, though: If fertile women are so valuable, why are modern women encouraged to squander their most valuable years to compete with men?
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3y ago
My only real answer is that the societal pressures these women face and outright false promises they hear of the happy work woman who can have it all outweighs the basic common sense that they'd otherwise have.
I'm honestly not even sure what age women start to even consider becoming a career woman, that's actually a key part of the puzzle. What age and what thoughts at that age lead to this to begin with?
chickengod 3y ago
High school and earlier, from my experience. I went to a very liberal high school where every woman wanted to have a long career, be a doctor, etc
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3y ago
I see, so roughly around the age girls first start having intimate experiences with boys
So they never really get an accurate barometer of what guys are looking for as they get older, as high school boys don't really have a career.
That makes sense, these girls won't get a reality check for another 10 years give or take
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago
Because the people pushing it don't give a shit about good outcomes for women - they derive benefit from the hypercompetition that feminism causes.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago
I heard my wife tell my daughter: "Study hard so you can become successful and marry a rich guy."
Keep in mind she's 5 years old so I'm not fretting about this but then again, that is a formative age. I need to talk with my wife and find some other way to encourage her to study and learn a work ethic.
It's tough because here's the problem: For men, working is essential to our personal survival. But for women, it's at best a backup plan: Something to fall back on if the husband dies or her risk she took fails to pay off. But how do I explain this to a 5 year old girl?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Just teach your daughters about the lies feminists tell women. That's all it takes, really.
incarnate1 3y ago
Unfortunately, the educated, financially stable, clean cut man does not care about the fact that she's an executive, makes 6 figures, confident, or "straight-laced". He does care about the fact that she's 34.
He already has those things she has, so he'll just date women in their 20's, who unfortunately want the same things she does. This is her competition.
Pic889 2y ago
If I may add, he also cares that she comes with a laundry list of demands (the list of demands most likely includes kids and marriage asap, but in the oft chance it doesn't you can be sure there will be other hard-to-satisfy demands in there).
Now, let's imagine an educated, financially stable (the way women mean it, aka wealthy), clean-cut, 34-year old man. That man has worked hard during the last 15 years of his life to get where he is, and probably still has all kinds of CEOs and associates putting stress and demands on him.
That man already has the money, the status, and the respect. And he still has some fertility left in him (male sperm doesn't go bad until 40). So, why on Earth would that man want a woman with no fertility left in her (and hence no beauty, since humans are designed to look for signs of fertility which they interpret as beauty) coming pack-and-parcel with a laundry list of demands? Why wouldn't that man look for a woman 10 years older than him who is reasonably light on demands and just wants to have a good time (and maybe a relationship, but she has time to wait and verify compatibility so she doesn't want it asap)?
But you see, women have been indoctrinated that what works for men also works for women. If status helps men score dates, it should for women. And of course, women aren't supposed to down marry, so he has to be successful himself, so becoming a sugar mommy for a young non-wealthy man is also out of the question. Where are all the good, educated, financially stable, clean-cut men?
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 3y ago
She's about 10- 15 years too late for looking for men her age for marriage.
She's right. They're all married. Or married and already divorced. Already had their kids.
Either way she's not on anyone's radar at this point and she's becoming aware of it.
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
"I'm on the main dating apps..."
Well there's your problem right there, goofy. The caliber of men you're looking for are damn sure not on Bumble/Tinder/POF unless they're looking for a quick one and on to the next.
"...and would love to find another corporate type."
Ha! Why would a man want to date someone that he's essentially COMPETING with? If he wanted to spar, he'd take up boxing/MMA.
NeoSpartan 3y ago
I'll never understand why they think we would care about their business success, all that means is you are not going to be available a lot of the time, it's a fucking negative, not a positive. Also, a guy in her position, at her age, is dating 20 somethings, not you, idiot. You waited too long and were too picky, now you must settle.