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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago Stickied
1st meta note: if you came here from my x-post on reddit, while you're at forums.red, do please take a few minutes to explore the rest of forums.red and trp.red, and maybe even create an account. You can use the same username as on reddit, and it will verify that it's you.
2nd meta-note: a different user originally submitted an uncensored still shot from this video. Captioned photos can be faked, and we wanted to show that these are authentically her words. We offered to allow him to submit the scrubbed full video instead, but I was going to do it if he didn't by this morning. I want to acknowledge his original contribution, so thank you, /u/wessi0772.
On to the actual commentary!
This sort of loss of attraction when a man shows any kind of weakness or vulnerability is just part of women's nature. They can't help it.
However, they can help what they do about it.
The woman in this video, like almost all women, thinks she wants a "sensitive guy* and cajoles the dude until he opens up. Now she's repulsed. This sort of thing happens all the time, which is why so many men refuse to open up, refuse to talk about their feelings, refuse to show any vulnerability, or even refuse to get involved with women in the first place.
If you do choose to get involved, just know that some of them choose to control their behavior in these situations rather than just going with their instinctual revulsion.
I've written before (at least twice, in fact!) about when I cried in front of my wife upon learning of my father's death. She joined me in my grief, and comforted me. Yes, I could see the (temporary) loss of attraction, but it's important to note a few pieces of info, though:
First and foremost, I didn't give a shit. My father had just died, and I was wracked with grief. I still have the attitude that if legitimate grief scares her off, you're better off without a piece of shit like that in your life.
Secondly, she wasn't some chick I'd known for a few months, but rather my wife of 12 years at the time. I'd built up sufficient alpha/arousal equity by then, and was easily able to recover any I'd lost.
Thirdly, and most in line with the theme of the sub and the fact that women need to be responsible for their own actions and decisions, she chose not to follow that awful instinct.
To sum up: most women will behave like the woman in the video. These women are not worthy of your commitment. They are capable of choosing to be better as my experience indicates, but most choose not to, and then wonder why men are so closed off and only want them for sex.
Decisions have consequences, bitch. Live with them.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
I'm chuckling about the arousal component. What's the point of marriage if it's dependent upon arousal? Note: I'm not saying that this is an excuse to slack off either physically, mentally, or financially but the idea is "for richer or poorer". If someone isn't there for you, then why marry at all unless one is desperate and that's the only way to get a little transactional nookie?
Next, if I'm crying in that situation, my wife's feeling of arousal is the last thing going through my mind just as when my wife is sick, I'm not "aroused" by her either. That's ok. The arousal comes from a deeper place in terms of not just my overall respect for her but also my own responsibility to find and nurture the beauty in her. In a bar or disco, if a woman doesn't want to sleep with a guy unless he pushes her buttons, so be it. But in marriage, she should accept some responsibility just as the man does for supporting a wife.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
ALL relationships depend on it, at least in part. We don't live under the rules of marriage 1.0 anymore.
A) under current laws, men shouldn't marry AT ALL.
B) you can be together for years and then experience the light switch effect.
C) if she's aroused, the resulting nookie is hardly transactional. Transactional would be "I provide the house you live in, so you must sleep with me" for example.
Agreed. Like I said, I didn't give a shit.
That's what I'm saying!
chunky 2y ago
There's no transactions in marriage. The marriage IS the transaction. Once you give it away, you have nothing concrete left to give. All action after that is at her discretion.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
The term he used was "relational equity", and I'm talking about a different concept.
I also wasn't trying to say "she checked her spreadsheet of my alpha/arousal points to make sure I had enough before deciding to stick around", which would have been more in line with (though still different from) what Rollo was discussing.
The concept I was talking about would operate mostly within her subconscious.
Had I not been sufficiently attractive for so long, she might have made a different decision. Then again, maybe not, as her character is good.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Thanks! Though she's far from perfect.
If she were perfect, I'd have never found the Red Pill!
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
Now THAT is profound!
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Bonzai-Shaihulud 2y ago
"This is a safe space, but not that safe".
Wow, so a "safe space", something created by the last feminist Gestalt, that should be unconditional & respected is of course conditional & limited for men. Classic.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago
This is the female equivalent of a guy asking his girl for her notch count and then losing interest after getting an answer.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 2y ago
No. No it is not the same.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago
In what way does it not create a similar getting dumped situation?
What I meant was that it's similar in the way that the girl says, I want you to show me your vulnerable side, I won't judge you, the guy does it, and gets dumped.
Similarly how a guy will say, I want you to be honest with me, I won't judge you, how many guys have you slept with, she says 40, and gets dumped.
It's not comparable in other ways, that was the only comparison.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yet another fat black chick seeking attention.