Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
deeplydisturbed
Posted 2y ago in The Big Question - Permalink - Locked - 1.9K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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unplugged69 2y ago
That's fucking hilarious, I had a good chuckle. Being a man is hard but being a woman must be a nightmare with all their expectations. Most of the women in that video looked like bridge trolls but would only date someone over 6 feet (top 14% of the polulation). I hope they enjoy their cats and their fucking wine!
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Of that 14% it's going to be many black guys and a bunch of scandinavians/swedes. But even at 14% it goes down because I'm 6ft and got zero attention for being out of shape(not even overweight), having a big nose, and crooked teeth. Teeth are done in 4 wks btw. :). Hitting the gym. We'll see about a nose job but this late in life I'm not sure if I'd rather just blow that money on cocaine and hookers instead.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 2y ago
Just a thought I had about the whole "I like bad boys" mantra that young women often say. My speculation is that women can only engage in being so brazen with their simultaneous praise for bad boys and disrespect for stable men (who are "boring") because we live in times of abundance and scarcity. Said abundance and scarcity provides women an easy landing for choosing these types of men as the failure of the relationship does not cause them much hardship.
Stable men are very much necessary for society to function. And when they are not fully appreciated, they are less likely to give it the extra effort to create more abundance and stability. When hard times hit, these men are going to be willing to rise to the occasion to do the difficult work to bring whatever stability they can to those near to them (friends, family, neighbors). Women as a whole seem to have forgotten this/fail to notice this, as they do not appear to grasp that the current abundance is thanks to men like the ones they find "boring." Perhaps if/when we do reach hard times, they will get quite the reminder.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 2y ago
HoT. This is a good reminder. This pattern is so strong at this point, I am surprised they do not teach it in schools.
Oh, wait. Never mind. Most teachers are women. Damn, I thought I had a good idea there for a seccond.
Onestepeveryday 2y ago
I see this trend of over expectations in IG every day. I see 4s to 6s beliving they deserve a male underwear model as a boyfriend, when they are ugly, living unhealthy life styles, boring and usually with shitty jobs. They dont offer any kind of value to a man, except for being a wet hole, yet they are special snowflakes and betas shower them on attention.
Know whats worse than that? Their actitude about it, they are often mean and aggresive, or they just deny or block anything that doesnt agree with their ilusion of being high smv women. Nothing more blue pilled than living in your own make up world.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
I'm reminded of a joke Ronald Reagan used to say about an optimist seeing a room full of excrement and proclaiming "That's great! There has to be a horse in there somewhere!"
A bit of optimism is essential to our very survival: Looking for reasons to fail to justify lack of effort is a surefire way to fail. A bit of optimism is what made humanity what it is today, but it also meant a lot of "broken eggs" for the omelette. Most small businesses fail. But with a LITTLE optimism, one is open to look for opportunities and in the right balance, most make it.
It's ironic that I should recall Reagan making that joke because 40 years later after I voted for him, I think followers of conservatism are still looking for the pony. I don't want to mix politics in here, but just observing that women aren't the only ones living in a delusional mindset long after it's become unhealthy. At some point, when you ONLY see excrement and your current system isn't yielding any sign of fruit, it may be considered time for radical worldview changes.
For most men, reaching their 30's means their resources usually are greater, more experience and wisdom, and they still have time to effect changes in their life. For women, like child-actors, the problem is that even as they may realize that their abundance mindset isn't working out, they have less resources to work with.
Another analogy: You have an assignment for class that takes a good 20 hours of effort. You think there's plenty of time so you don't do anything on it. 2 days before the class you realize that you need even more effort than you thought and if you bust a hump, you'll get a C. You thought you could ride in on an A. So now you face a miserable 2 days of work, no sleep, just get a C. Some choose to just take their F and deal with it because "Queens Are Happy Alone."
Onestepeveryday 2y ago
"Queens are happy alone" a good phrase to represent this kind of woman a few years after they hit wall. Do you think they really belive what they preach? Or they are aware of their own unworthyness and refuse to face reality?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
That question inspires me to think philosophically at this late hour. I was burning my eyes reading some FDS dogma that went “You don’t settle, girl! Even if it means you wind up alone!”
Er, I (don’t) hate to break it to her, but that’s settling too.
The only way to say someone doesn’t “settle” is for them to achieve the goals they desire. Someone says “I want to be a gold medalist” and they win silver, they settled for silver. They can be proud they got that far, but they still “settled”.
By definition, a woman who winds up alone because her hypergamy demands failed despite her otherwise being able to support herself means that an emotional need, by definition, wasn’t met. She proudly declares: “I got my own roof! I got my own car! I pay my own bills!” but she craves someone else doing it for her. Why do people go to restaurants and pay 3X for food just because someone brought it to their table?
Women’s sexual desirability plummets after age 50 and that’s when the payoff for a long term relationship kicks in for her emotionally: A man who appreciates her as a person and shares a sexual history for her. I am a time machine for my wife’s beauty: I remember when she was younger and prettier and I share that with her 20 years later. Women at that age who are alone truly do settle for a LOT less as compared to men who remain single because marriage/girlfriends are too expensive.
Another analogy: Imagine instead of a sit-down restaurant you go to a buffet. Yeah, it’s settling but someone still cooked the food and you’re out and enjoying 90% of the experience. The “settling” is a fraction of what you get (and costs less too.)
But compare and contrast to men “settling”: With post 20’s relationships so awful, many men may decide that “settling” for cooking his own steak at home and having a beer instead of going to a restaurant is worth it when the restaurant charges $200 and you aren’t guaranteed anything and the steak, when it’s served, is with a sullen waitstaff that treats you badly.
So sure, men wish they could have more for what we “settle” for, but we know that we are not losing much. And men are ACCUSTOMED to settling because, as providers, we don’t expect all our goals to be met.
Nonetheless, we are social creatures hence why we’re on forums such as this and there’s an importance in not being truly alone. It’s a wonderful time in that I see not only are men becoming more adept at gaming and handling women, but also in relating to each other.