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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Once again, if you're here from my x-post to reddit, do create an account and join the conversation here. Forums.red and trp.red are both an excellent alternative to mainstream social media, and places where Red Pill men can freely converse without so many constraints. [/meta]
and now, onto the post!
Here we have yet another illustration of how this blank slate equalism bullshit, this belief that we're all the same except for our plumbing, has severely damaged many people of both sexes.
The strong, independent woman is the female equivalent of the frustrated NiceGuy™. Both think to themselves, "what do I find attractive in a mate? If I build those traits in myself, I'll make myself more attractive" and it backfires spectacularly.
The NiceGuy™ cultivates within himself a gentle demeanor, a kind spirit, and a meek personality because that's what's attractive to men in women. Then the poor bastard gets frustrated when he experiences nothing but rejection, because heterosexual women are not attracted to femininity.
The strong, independent woman thinks that since she wants an ambitious go-getter with an education and a high-powered career, that if she becomes that herself, she'll attract that kind of man. And while she'll have no trouble getting sex like just about all women, that precious commitment will elude her as heterosexual men select more feminine women, who are also younger, hotter, and tighter.
Check out that first paragraph in the screenshot. She says she's attractive, then lists things that make men attractive to women. There's no mention of her figure or weight or fitness. There's no mention of motherhood traits. There's no mention of being a submissive helpmeet.
More and more strong, independent women are whining about how most men don't take them seriously as relationship or marriage material, and it's sure amusing.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2y ago
I almost feel sorry for these women. The nice thing (pun fully intended) about the NiceGuy™ approach is its failure as a strategy is immediately apparent. As you said, the NiceGuy™ listens to women's problems, offers them emotional support, sacrifices and goes out of his way to serve them, then get smacked square in the face with the reality that no woman wants to fuck him. Least of all the individuals into whom he's been depositing Kindness Coins. Which doesn't stop a lot of men from continuing to labor under the delusion for far too many years, of course, but the obvious conclusion that this shit doesn't work is standing right there, staring directly at them the entire time. They just need to have eyes to see it.
Women, conversely, embrace an equally flawed strategy but, because they're still young, attractive women, they meet with a string of false positives in the form of most men wanting to date them despite their lack of feminine and wifely virtues. So they go about their teens, 20s and into their early-mid 30s believing what they're doing is working, only to smack face-first into The Wall, no longer able to command the male attention they once did and having no idea why things have suddenly changed. Then when they start asking others what's going on to try to figure it out they're alternatively lied to by other women and blue pill men and/or offended by red pill men who tell them the truth.
As much as that sucks for them, however, the reason I don't feel sorry for them is women always have some sort of support structure upon which to fall back, even if only the validation of blue pill society at large. Men, on the other hand, are left to sink or swim entirely under our own power. Which super sucks on the front end but, unless you've royally fucked up along the way, there's very little from which a man with sufficient time and dedication can't recover.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Excellent take. Yep, people like are just shit at EQ. Can only see things from their own perspective. Definitely a huge weakness.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
This shit-show is going to last for decades.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Men have been telling women what we find attractive in a wife candidate for ages now, but women refuse to listen, partly cos feminists insist that what men actually want is sexist and that men should want the same thing from women that women want from men.
The belief that women want nice guys is partly projection from guys assuming that what they want from a woman is also true for women, but overwhelmingly it is because women and society BS men insisting that women do indeed love the nice guys but the only reason why they reject the nice guys is because they are not real nice guys in an effort to conceal that women only find hot bad boys sexually attractive.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2y ago
Yup. From the moment they're old enough to understand the differences between the sexes and develop even a cursory interest in girls, most boys are actively set up to fail by the NiceGuy™ narrative, then criticized for daring to acknowledge the disparity between promised and actual results.
By contrast, no one tells young girls men want masculine, accomplished women. Generally speaking, no one tells them what men want at all; it's just assumed boys and men will be interested in them simply because they're girls - which, to be fair, is true, at least as far as initial attraction goes.
As I said above, I have some sympathy for young women who are fooled into thinking men value their accomplishments because of the false positives they receive from men who are interested in them despite those accomplishments precisely because they're young women. At the end of the day, however, they're not being sold a false and actively counterproductive narrative the way men are.
Skorpion1999 2y ago
If I don't like the feel of a girl's pussy I will immediately cut them off from relationship or marriage possibilities. That's caused problems but I refuse to budge. My ideal wife will know what kegels are and also won't be a loose prison wallet.
RedPill115 2y ago
These women have become the men they want to date, and they're at the same point the blue pill betas were - why isn't this working for me?