1. Re-read her explanation about why she did not reveal to him that she is a whore and then read the below post: https://www.forums.red/p/whereallthegoodmenare/250448/the_maturity_myth
2. Notice how the Disney notion of love and the reality of her whoreness conflict and cause to create misery to the guy. She thinks the Disney notion of love makes her “pure”, but the truth is that she is a rotten ho. Her lies come from a guilty conscience. If she was really comfortable being a whore, she would have been upfront with being a whore. Most men do not mind sluts. We just want sluts to admit that they are sluts and to own what they are.
3. The reason these whores do not want to admit that they are whores and pretend to be angels is that they know whores get treated like whores. They don’t want that. They also do not want to be angels. They conceal what they are and pretend to be what they would want to feel like. You cannot trust a woman who is not even honest with herself.
4. Do not ever commit to hoes like this. Whores get transactional sex. Actual prostitutes get money. Sluts get validation. Good girls get commitment.
5. Notice how the position of Steven and Dan inverted in this girls mind as this narrative goes on. Notice how the narrative shifts to not wanting to file a case on Steven to not understanding why she did those things with Steven, to calling him a piece of shit and wanting to take revenge on him for potentially sabotaging her payout. This is the light-switch effect in full display.
6. Do not ever get married to lying whores like this.
7. Do not ever go to counseling. Counseling for men happens when your best friend lays out the harsh truth to you because he cares for you. Counseling is for girls. Couples counseling is a pimp move to get you to her mental point of origin. Don’t get pimped.

I don't see how Steven did anything wrong here. He has a right to free speech. He told Dan about his fiancee's true past. He didn't post to the internet. He communicated directly with Dan. So how do we get to revenge porn from that?

It's simple: Steven interfered with the feminine imperative. The sisterhood has made that a crime, indirectly. Now, all the woman has to do is get a female prosecutor to craft this into a crime. All the women shun Steven, his gf dumps him, and he gets criminal charges.

The lesson in all this is Steven should have simply told Dan "I have porn videos your fiancee made of us enthusiastically doing anal, oral, bondage, etc. Now that she's getting married to you can you ask her if she wants them for her/your collection or if I should delete them?". This would give him plausible deniability as a nice guy asking if he should delete the videos, rather than coming across as a vengeful ex.

Anyway, poor Dan. How embarrassing. At least he dodged a bullet. What the fuck is counseling going to do anyway? Erase the past? Cuck him into ignoring his innate disgust for promiscuous women? Brainwash him into blaming Steven for his fiancee's lies?

Actually, good for Dan. He's just now entering his peak SMV and hitting his stride in fintech. He'll be red pilled right when he becomes a high value man and is a mark for hoes trying to "stick the landing" in their 30s. He'll realize he's the prize.

I see the big thing that everyone missed is that Steven Chadwick is getting a police report filed against him and may catch a criminal charge just for trying to warn Beta Dan that he is marring a 304. This guy is like the rest of us as in he just wanted to get laid, except he had better looks and game and got down her pants. He then meets Beta Dan and was thinking he was doing him a solid by warning Beta Dan on 304 he's getting. This is what pisses me off: instead of heeding that warning or even more so, being grateful of getting that warning (me personally, I would be thanking him and buying him a beer) he takes his pain, his anger, all those negative feelings and doesn't direct at the 304 that deceived him. No, he takes all that hurt and redirects that to Steven Chadwick.

What a lot of women on here that reply fail to understand that it isn't just the sexual promiscuity, it's the lying. By lying, you robbed us of being able to weighting in all the factors and making informed decision on marrying you. We feel tricked, bamboozled, conned. You conned me, you sold me that famous bridge in Brooklyn and I fell for it like a sucker. I feel like a sucker. Now, don't you think anger and resentment might surface in a man? I really believe that women do know this but women want it all. The mind blowing sex with multiple Chads and that one special man in marriage; then act shocked and say what her husband feels is wrong when he finds out. In this case, it's turning Steven Chadwick into the bad guy.

When I was over at TRP, it was discussed a lot on how TRP is amoral. There is no morality attached to game and bedding women; it just is what it is. A lot of men misinterpret that as to being no consequences to banging women. "Ha ha what's Beta going to do? I lift weights and embrace the Dark Triad!" What is happening to Stevie boy here is a great example of how a Beta can lash out. You are a cool guy until you are not a cool guy. You can be Chad until your name is mud and watch how fast you get turned on. In Steven' case, he was the great fuck but that's all he was. As she says, a "fuckboy that isn't going places." When it came to status, a life of comfort and ease, wealth, and her potentially losing her shot into the Country Club, all that great fucking from Steve just went out the window and now she is willing to actually go to a police station and sit down and swear out a police report.

It's AF/BB. A woman's dualistic mating strategy. She really does split her desires and men into two camps. The Chad satisfy her feral lust to breed and the beta satisfy her survival instinct for protection, provisions and resources. Chad is the Alpha seed, Beta Billy is the loyal to the kid and paycheck providing dude. To a woman, you are one or the other. Chad is for reproduction hence the hot sweaty feral sex for him. Billy is the home and hearth, feelings of security and loyalty and commitment. Having hot, feral sex with a provider does not compute. It literally feels wrong to her.

Girl meets nice guy, and since she's nice too, there's no way she'll do those disgusting things! But nevermind the past; what matters is who she is now.

We have seen this one before or at least the same story line. Reformed slut tries to pretend to be a born again good girl with a very watered down version of her slut life. She refuses to do things with the man she "loves" that she freely and enthusiastically did with every prior swinging dick. Then is offended that her new guy would feel betrayed about her lying to him about it.

Most of this story is superfluous bullshit. The moral is: if a girl is into you she will do some of the most degrading shit with gusto and excitement. If she isn't then she will starfish your ass into a deadbedroom.

There are 2 lessons here. First one for the women that @aldabruzo has repeated many times...if you were doing slurry shit for the guys before the guy that you want a relationship then you better give your new guy the same level of service or better. Second lesson for the men...if she isn't giving you an enthusiastic "FUCK YES" for sex and sex acts then she isn't very attracted to you. Move on, learn more,, and up your game until you find one that is because you are the beta bux that gets the leftovers not the alpha that gets what he wants.

Dude at least figured out on some level that he wasn't a top pick he was a last resort and staring down the barrel of a dead bedroom the instant the ink on the marriage contract dried. I low-key suspect he's just telling her what she wants to hear in regards to the counseling and is using that to maneuver her into burning her bridges with her ex, and/or possibly using the lawsuit as a way to ruin her reputation while maintaining plausible deniability.

We'll see if he completes the ejection though.

Women are out there preaching that the past doesn't matter. Men are making it crystal fucking clear that the past absolutely matters.

Dan seems like a good dude, albeit a bit conflicted. If you ever find yourself in this position, simply walk away. There's no amount of couples or individual counseling that will fix things. Just move on.