His message hit home DEEP for me.

I went to a HBCU, career military officer, now I'm on the outside making 80K a year just to read books. I'm 6'0, I bench 275 and have a fit muscular body. I'm well read, well travelled, and damn good looking.

And you know what? Dating is a wasteland for me because the exact reasons stated above.

One thing Kevin never mentioned is why these women are grossly unprepared to handle a man of value. It's the thing I tell every woman who thinks they qualify for me: "You wouldn't know what to do with me if you got me."

The modern woman can barely handle the average man because the modern woman is content with being trash.

If the modern woman really wanted a HVM, she would do the things necessary to get one. If a woman wants a degree, she goes to college. If a woman wants money, she gets a job. Women know how to get what they want.

What they don't know how to do is be honest with themselves. When they get to my age, they might need a HVM, but they know that it comes with work that they aren't prepared to do. They are trained to parrot the things they're supposed to say, but ancient red pill wisdom has taught us to "watch what they do".

The modern woman fucks with losers because she is a loser and being with losers allows her to function comfortably. Occasionally, I'll hook up with one of these women and invariably, they fall back into their old habits because my lifestyle is a constant reminder that they aren't where they need to be in life and that, without a lot of work, they cannot be a real partner for me.

I think one of the major achievements of Samuels that gets overlooked is his success creating content by black people, for black people, that hit into a larger audience of all colors. It wasn't some woke some woke Oprah shit either. If he'd had a fraction of the backing Oprah had from the mainstream, imagine how big he could have gotten.

There's a lesson in this for all of us. We can learn from his success. I could imagine making content by autistic people, for autistic people, that could hit into a larger audience of non-autistic people.

Men are telling women over and over what they want for long term relationships; and women still don't understand it.

They understand it just fine, but women know that they don't measure up. So they try to change the game.

There was much celebration on Black Twitter at his death, especially among women. Homie moved the ball forward, he mattered. The bitterness he engendered was real. Indeed, though most won’t accept it, his lessons were more valuable to women than men. So much of the problems in dating consists of women and their misunderstanding of their own mate value. When a women who is a four insists on wanting to date eights at minimum, a number of problems follow. Women incentive the behavior they hate in men, they are their own worst enemy.

Another one of his watershed moments was when he was a guest on the Fresh&Fit podcast and confronted a modern business-minded woman Amanda, who calls herself "half a man" and has a voice to fit the title. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxFUWreI7BA

The man's emotional intelligence was off the charts!

and they don't know what men want in a long term relationship with a woman.

And it sure as fuck isn't the same thing that women want or as I keep saying, if it were, men would just fuck and marry men.

"Until women start listening to men, the problems will continue."

And if we talked until the heat death of the universe, most of them still wouldn't get it.

One observation about Kevin Samuel trying to communicate with the woman was her claiming to "improve herself". It's tragic that if such women did "improve themselves", like men did, they would have a very good chance at landing a man with much of what they want (including height and money.)

As men are aware, the dating apps are a wasteland so many men eventually figure out game including social skills on how to approach people, network, and such. When a woman such as this says she's "improving herself", she means she's making more money (to price herself out of the market) but doesn't really improve her ability to find and appeal to men she desires. That IS possible but it would require her to be less demanding, bossy, standoffish, and lazy. These are actually the skills she thinks she's "improving" on.

These are skills women had in abundance about a century ago back when women were oppressed. Women outside of the USA often possess much of these charms to the disgust of American women. Nonetheless, they are traits such men desire and make them more available.

But why should we help women such as this? To assist their hypergamy?

h this video he entitled "Average At Best". In

he kept her for quite a long time considering her playing with the phone like she didn't give a shit

tis episode reminds me of myself when I try to train sometimes some chicks: i would give punishment for talking back, but I allow talking back if 5 minutes passed form the topic.