Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 2y ago
I'd like to see the exchange that followed, but it's likely that she reacted by shaming him for rejecting her while he DHV'd by not playing by her rules. Now she has to qualify herself to him.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
Upgrade now indeed.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
I have some bad news, bud: ALL WOMEN YAMMER!
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Not on dating apps they don’t. Unless you are 6’5” apparently
A guy under 6ft doesn’t get a reply to a “Hi” - and she even admits it. She wasn’t even going to chat shit unless she truly has no messages (which I don’t believe)
Does she really expect us to believe she didn’t pre screen for height and already know? Or that if he only had the cat and the star sign that would have been enough for her to message? They really do think we are stupid don’t they ?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Never used one.
IRL, they just about never STFU.
reminds me of one of my favorite jokes:
Why don't women fart as much as men?
They never shut the fuck up long enough to build up any pressure.
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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
If you want to experience what it's like to be a woman on a dating app, get on Grindr
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Number one reason for women to go on dating apps is “boredom”. They enjoy the free validation and the occasional chat with a good looking guy. But male attention comes easy and they’ve no desire to do anything with a man. Kind of sucks that the dating market is full of either 304’s, or practically asexual girls who have no interest in dating/relationships.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Nah, that’s with some sarcasm. More just not interested in dating. I work in the city and deal with girls like that constantly. They aren’t getting plowed by various versions of Chad regularly, just 0 effort in their love life. Imagine it’ll all magically work out because they always get male attention.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I’m not sure tbh. I’ve dated women who are damn near puritanical. It’s not about them not being attracted to me; they’d be all over me in affectionate ways; hugging, kissing, touching. But sex is like extracting water from stone. It’s like they’re fighting their biological urge to have a man.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
They don’t talk for that long when you are (significantly) under 6 feet. They also don’t meet - in general. I have definitely had some cases of being strung along for far longer that I should have allowed (and should have known better). One or two I thought were NAWALTs or at least “reformed” based on what they said (I know words vs actions
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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Oh I don’t but I wonder whether leaving it out is seen as more of a red flag . I don’t mean on tinder. I mean on the apps where there are various bio categories and height is one. Not the free form text
I don’t mean the “no hookup” types. It is often commented in these spaces how that is plausible deniability for if someone who knows them sees them on there
The girl I dated for six months from tinder would have gone home with me the first night if I had asked but I’m not that type. And she was a proper shy and reserved type. If you click then you click (but that is rare in my case). In this one case I fluked into some hardcore social validation by numbing into loads of colleagues who hadn’t seen me for months and were legit ecstatic to see me. Must have given her the completely wrong (but a very very positive) idea of me. That circumstance is never happening again
No - in my case the nawalt was a girl who seemed to pretty much never use social media and hardly even use whatsapp. Seemed like she was not one of these “glued to phone” types (which is far more intoxicating for women I find as I am a glued to phone type but not in a social media and validation sense). She also had lost a male friend to false accusations (as in her ended himself) and had some female friends who dumped guys for absurd reasons (wrong aftershave). So she at least seemed aware of how tough things could be for guys. She was still a flake and ultimately a ghost. Just after a much longer period of leading me on due to said positioning (probably unintentional) that made her seem like a nawalt. I was foolish and admit that
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago
6'4" is in the 99th percentile for men in the US.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
Haven't you heard? She's special.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
WELL EVERYBODY'S HEARD
ABOUT THE BIRD
BIRD, BIRD, BIRD
BIRD IS THE WORD
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Special as in retarded?
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
We just want it to be special. We don't want to be specific.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Did she really expect a positive reply to a reply that was unnecessarily long winded and a week late
She didn’t even fish for a lie as to why she took so long in replying
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Check out eagle-eyed owl over here! I missed that. Yeah, women are just about always on their phones. She just waited so long because she's a stuck-up bitch.
Scorpion69_ 2y ago
She probably waited for so long because she was attracted to him from the start and wanted to neg him while trying to demonstrate high value (which she didnt).
Chicks are solipsistic af
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
The whole reason negging works on women is the same reason it generally doesn't work on men.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Negging a man is a fast way to say "you shouldn't talk to me"
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
Minor (quibble): It probably does generally work on men, but largely betas. About 40 years ago, when dinosaurs walked the earth, most women were happy with negged betas who held their doors, bought them stuff, and were happy to follow along with her stick/carrot exercises. In some ways, I'm glad those days are over.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Do you know what negging actually is?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
I do. You're correct that women don't "neg" in this context. Would "shit test" be a better way of putting it? I think the purpose of men's negging is to drop a woman's ego a peg or two to make her accessible while women use negative treatment of men in general to keep him compliant and obedient.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
If they're at that point, they've already failed a bunch of shit tests.
The way to describe such men is "henpecked".
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
Agreed. I find it amusing that 30 years ago, women LIKED men this way. Well, sort of. They may have been in a continual state of Type-A nagging bitch misery, but they stayed with the men. They at least ate their own dog food.
Modern women's goals are to "fix" the men and then abandon them.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
The old trick of using common courtesy, such as saying "Hi", is remarkably good at eliminating women who lack it.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2y ago
It's perfectly normal for strangers to start entertaining her out of the blue.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
When my wife can be a pain in the arse, I work it out with her because I don't want to go back out there.
I would guess that the "hi" opener from "qualified" men on dating apps would be more successful than anything else because it would pique her curiosity to look at his profile, which she did, and then message him. Longer stuff would not likely get a response from her and even if she was going to, she'd look at his profile anyway. So why bother with more than a "hi?"
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
As kind of revealed by this screenshot. Hi was seemingly good enough … because he was 6’5”
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yeah it really is just out-sourcing all the work onto the woman. Same thing with suicide swiping. Besides, women are supposed to be the one with social grace. If she can't even be socially graceful she must be insufferable and good riddance.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Scorpio and 6’4” is “her jam”. And these chicks expect men to put in big effort to initial messages?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2y ago
Other than Zodiac names and height, you don't really need anything else at all to be successful in a relationship.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago
I'm starting to think someone invented star signs to screen out stupid women
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
So, just about all of them?
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago
Unfortunately yes. It was too effective
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DivergentMemory 2y ago
That must hurt her ego so bad